The Difference Between Control and Surrender - Real Life Recovery

In this episode of Alive & Sober with Reno Collier, Reno sits down with Bruce A. for an honest, in-depth conversation about one of the most important tools in recovery: the Serenity Prayer. Together, they break down what it really means to accept what we cannot change, find the courage to change what we can, and seek the wisdom to know the difference. Reno and Bruce share personal stories of hitting rock bottom, struggling with anxiety, fear, and the need to control people and outcomes, and how surrendering to God brought real peace and growth. Bruce opens up about his journey from skepticism and resentment toward God to finding hope and healing in a 12-step program. The discussion explores how the Serenity Prayer is more than just words—it's a daily practice that helps us let go of control, take responsibility for ourselves, and trust God with the rest. Reno and Bruce also talk about the importance of humility, the power of community, and how faith and recovery go hand in hand. Action Steps: Read: Take time to read the Serenity Prayer and Matthew 6:34 (“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”). Reflect: Think about areas in your life where you’re trying to control things that aren’t yours to manage. Where do you need to let go and trust God? Respond: Pray, “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. Help me trust You with what I can’t control and take action where I can.” Reveal: Share your experience of letting go and trusting God with someone else in your recovery community, or encourage a friend who’s struggling with control. Listen to Alive & Sober with Reno Collier and Bruce A. for real talk about recovery, faith, and finding peace one day at a time. Keywords: Reno Collier, Alive & Sober, Serenity Prayer, recovery, faith, sobriety, 12-step, letting go, trust God, anxiety, courage, wisdom, Christian recovery, addiction, spiritual growth, personal responsibility, Matthew 6:34, hope, healing, community, real stories