The DILEMMA of Soul Care

We all have people we care about, but how much energy and intentionality do we invest in caring about ourselves? Typically, people tend to fall into one of two groups: those who only care about themselves, and those who don't actively care for themselves at all. So how do we avoid these pitfalls, remaining unselfish while learning to truly and actively love ourselves as God does? And what can we learn from Jesus about the importance of self-care?