EPISODE · Aug 13, 2025 · 47 MIN
The Divorce Chat Every Woman Needs To Hear
from The Grown-Up Girls Report Podcast · host Alex Merton-McCann
Episode DescriptionIn this episode, I am joined by Cassandra Kalpaxis, a family lawyer, domestic violence educator, and author – and we talk about financial independence for women and the concept of a ‘Dignified Divorce’.Now, every woman needs to listen to this episode, even if things in the relationship arena are ‘tickety-boo’ because this episode is all about protecting yourself - just in case. Cassandra explains the importance of financial knowledge for women, the importance of understanding one’s rights and the concept of escape funds.She outlines how to have an amicable separation, how to achieve a ‘Dignified Divorce’ and how to successfully co-parent. She is also a big fan of ‘pre-nups’ – so listen in to hear why.In addition to being a lawyer, Cassandra is also a passionate Domestic Violence advocate. Her insights into the various forms of coercive control and the ‘generational lens’ on this is really compelling. This is a really thought-provoking interview that I guarantee you’ll learn a lot from. Cassandra’s practical advice and empowering messages are all about women claiming their independence and make informed decisions about their lives and relationships.Cassandra’s book Dignified Divorce is available for sale here. As she says – it’s cheaper than a consultation!Alex xxResourcesDignified Divorce – available here.The Domestic Violence Legal Service – a specialist free legal service for women experiencing domestic and family violence in New South Wales. There are similar services available in every state in Australia.Connect with CassandraInstagram: @cassandrakalpaxis Website: calpaxuslegal.com.auChapters00:00 Introduction to Dignified Divorce01:55 Cassandra's Journey: From Lawyer to Author05:20 Navigating Economic Vulnerability in Relationships08:46 Understanding Financial Infidelity and Abuse10:40 The Importance of Escape Funds14:23 Creating a Dignified Divorce18:06 The Role of Communication in Separation22:40 Navigating Conflict Resolution in Relationships26:24 Understanding Prenuptial Agreements31:20 Educating on Domestic Violence39:33 Exiting Unhealthy Relationships42:40 Empowerment and Financial Independence PS - Want More?You can find more from The Grown-Up Girls Report here:https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreportPPS – a small commission will be made if you choose to purchase the book through the link above. Connect with CassandraInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassandrakalpaxis/ Website: calpaxuslegal.com.au ResourcesDignified Divorce – available here.The Domestic ViolenceWant more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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