The Dojo S19E03 – Are Divorcees Red Flags? Corporate Landlords & Relationship Insecurity Debate

Would you date a divorcee?The episode kicks off with a wild dating take from the train — two kids is fine, but being divorced is where the line gets drawn. Is divorce actually a red flag, or are we just projecting our own fears about commitment?Recorded on location at an Apricrest property in Bryanston, the guys also unpack the difference between sectional title ownership and corporate landlord models — from slower decision-making and levy risks, to whether single-owner rental estates actually make for better tenant experiences.Then the conversation pivots into relationships:Are women intentionally testing boundaries?Is insecurity something we bring into relationships — or something that gets unlocked once we’re in them?And why do honest conversations between men and women break down the moment insecurity enters the chat?Expect debates on dating, emotional honesty, power dynamics and the uncomfortable truths nobody wants to own.00:00 Would you date a divorcee?03:00 Episode intro + Uzuri Online & Standby Auto Repairs04:00 Corporate landlords vs sectional title ownership08:30 Non-paying tenants & levy risk explained11:00 Body corporate rules vs single landlord control16:40 The headache of serious relationships17:20 Do partners create chaos when things are “too peaceful”?19:10 Boundary-testing in relationships20:00 Can men criticise women objectively?22:40 Nature vs intention in conflict24:00 Emotional honesty vs “pop psychology” excuses25:40 Insecurity in dating dynamics26:00 Platonic friendships & trust issues27:30 Owning your insecurity (or refusing to)