The Ecstasy Bond and Vibrant Matchmaking

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Hello, I'm Glenn Brooks. I'm good with you today. And my intent is that we don't necessarily talk. That what happens is we have a vertical blink.

A vertical blink. I want to explore this idea of a vertical blink, which is kind of exploring this morning. A lethal arose, one wisdom, one heart, family member, producer. Welcome, Lisa.

Thank you, Glenn. It's wonderful to be here. I'm sitting looking at the beautiful blue sky on a sunny chilly day in Western Alberta. And just appreciating the birds in the sky and the glistening snow with a lot of chilly temperatures and what I've been used to.

But it's wonderful to be with you. It's wonderful having you. I was just going to talk about driving collaboration and how to be an innovator today. And how that sort of ties into our our vibrant living challenge, our vibrant living challenge.

So the challenge or challenge in the different teaching is an opportunity to kind of go beyond what we're used to. And Achela and Sufi are in a challenge, but we have support of the community. So when I work with a person, it's kind of their, you know, their university community within themselves. Oftentimes in the physical body and in their, in the way they sometimes don't see things, they get kind of stuck in the horizontal.

They don't see the verticalness. And I just thought of a story. I was going to, I wanted to give you guys a feel for when you're in the horizontal and when you're in the vertical. The kind of two different things that are happening.

And when you become vertical, it shifts the way you see things. And of course, eight years ago, I had this, I had this sort of, I don't know, I saw things in a very different way. I had an interruption in my way of living in kind of a significant situation. I started to see this relationally.

And I've also been working with teams and sports and tennis and volleyball. I call it one tiger. One tiger is when you really get a sense that you're on, you're in, you're in breath coordination, you're in awareness, brightens and amplifies. And there's a sense that we're connected in this wonder of movement and connection is there.

So that's something that, that's sort of shifted. And then also in relationship that when we get into the vertical, we, I mentioned before the term Lisa a vertical blink. And I thought, how can I share that with the audience? Well, I called a company in New York City when I was filming an event, a company called Digital Destinations.

And I got a chat on the phone. And when you're in the vertical, you're just outside the linear time. It's just sort of an interesting phenomenon. You know, there's moments in life when you're like really inspired or it's hard to explain or your brain doesn't know how to put words to it.

It doesn't make sense. Like this different, so I called John up and I was experiencing verticalness. So when I, when I was doing this verticalness, it's like you see something and sense something. You almost feel like you could, it's almost like it was a physicality.

It's a skipping, your body feels like it's sort of lighter than you're used to in your movement changes. So when the vibrant living challenge, we actually have co-practices that kind of allow us to have the vertical in our bodies as well as an amazing team of people who work with movement and wonder in the body. So I said to, I got John on the phone in the first two minutes. I told him what the unscripted power that was about.

And he responded in the third minute that he wanted to come there and take the event from New York City and not charge me. You know people in the city, the stereotype here. They're very money sensitive, right? You pay a lot of rent.

There's a lot of investment. So when you're in this experience of, well, sometimes called vibrant collaboration, I just called it vertical blink, it's kind of where a person sees something and they're moved to take an unusual action. That even a moment ago might have been something winded done. It's funny enough.

What's that? Oh, Jenna, Jenna. I think your name as well. I mean, every name that we call him will come to as long as we say what honor and reverence.

Welcome, Jenna. Very much for having me. No, you're really, really welcome. I want you to use your lethal arose.

Hello. Welcome to the dialogue. It was wonderful to have you. Thank you very much.

You know, I was just, I was tuning into being in the show today, Jenna, and I was telling Lisa a little bit about you and how we're opening up. And what I mean by opening up, we're already on and have a listening in New York City. We have a listening in New York where actually, and we work with Dr. Teshik, who's from film on the left state New York.

So the vision that the imagery is, and when we're flowing today, it's a idea of vibrant collaboration. And I was just explaining how collaboration in my life has happened in a vertical state. And I never understood, I kind of over the last several years, I really caught that a vertical state is kind of like something that's contagious. And the way I can say, you could see something that's beyond the known and you're moved to take a different path of action together.

So I was giving the example, Jenna, where I call this guy New York, John, who owns digital destinations, and I was telling him an event that was coming together. And I, it's hard to explain this. The best way I could put it, I was feeling the verticalness of the scene of what I wanted to do and realizing he would be perfect. And within two minutes, he told me he was going to come take the event and he wasn't going to charge me anything.

Now, imagine your life, and this is a big part of a private collaboration. Imagine your life where you live your life young competition. And the other people around you see you. And I was thinking when I talked about seeing you, can I pick this up when I listen to people's breath when they call me through consultations with the people.

I can tell me through consultations with the coaching immediately. I sense them. I can sense their breath to their voice. And I was just telling someone this morning, Jenna, and Lisa, that I do sessions now where sometimes I just, I play with, I look at someone's breath without even speaking with them.

Because our breath reflects that sense of awareness and sense of, I guess I'll call it amplified relationalness, but playing with this morning. And I mentioned earlier, Jenna, I mentioned this idea because I've been playing with the language thing. I call it a vertical blink. So a vertical blink is when you both see something and it's like that moment of like, wow, you kind of get a sense of that.

And I always, so a lot of us had that early on, right, when we were kids. Like I remember certain people, really young people could have that, you know, they kind of see. And then what happens is, and I think we pick this up by what I call hidden thought viruses. So a hidden thought virus is an example would be, hidden thought virus would be, well, you got to get serious now, you're leaving school.

Or you're running out of money. It's time to get back to work. Or you're 51, you shouldn't be jumping over things. And sometimes when you walk into an environment that thought viruses are so loud and habituated.

So I realized that with couples, you know, that there's another whole thing. So I was going to share with, on this segment, Jenna, what I wanted to get into is vibrant collaboration, which I share and have people experience in the vibrant living challenge. So my work really blows down to one thing. And it's not really worked by the way.

It really boils down to what happens when people get into this in sync out of vibrancy. They can think out of vibrancy. So as an example, why I treasure what you do is because the more seeing, the more seeing and the best way I could convey it is that story that I told you, Jenna, about the woman Marion Rosen, who was a developed body awareness body. I was going to see, I was going to use another word besides work body awareness system.

And so it was something came to see here. And I want you guys to listen to this. So I want to invite you guys to be with me in the vertical this morning. I want you to kind of allow an exhale and play a little bit because ideally I would love you guys to be in the vibrant living challenge.

It's just where you get a book, your vibrant living journal, you'll get a partner. And I want you to just consider what's possible to be on possible. What's possible to be on possible. Sometimes the stuff is conveyed non-verbally in a way that's physical in person, like the magic of that.

Well, anyway, this guy came to see Marion Rosen. And he'd been to like, I don't know, 50 practitioners. He was a lot of people. He had a terrible physical pain.

He couldn't really walk, actually. He had someone bring him to the office. So Marion asked and she said, well, move across the room from one side to the other. And it took him like 20 minutes.

It was very painful. She said, well, take your time. And he sat down. He was exhausted.

So imagine your life. When your life is like in slot viruses and you feel separate, your body kind of reflects that. And conventionally, there's a lot of things you could do with the level of the problem. And so he was very different kind of support.

And so she asked him to move across the room. And all of a sudden he can move so beautifully. And so gracefully, he had light feet. Like when he was carrying his body, it was like, um, it was raised in his body.

And she didn't put her hands on him. She didn't touch him. And so someone told me that story. I said, well, that's seeing this.

So when someone truly, truly sees you beyond your scripts and your habits, your physical disconnections, it's a different exchange. It definitely transgres something. And in the vibrant living challenge and our vibrant collaboration, it's kind of like when you go beyond the competitive place and you see together. And that begins with path of action.

The only other thing that I wanted open the conversation to is the next part of that is stabilization. How do you stabilize this so that what you feel really inspired and moved, you can bring that down again so it becomes your life. That's what I think when the March Wayne said that we, that true success is turning your vocation into your vacation. And that's what the vibrant living challenge is about, which is our three months program, which I'd love to get you guys in because earlier you want to make a film or write a book or you're in the book.

And I want to find your feet in a way you never found your feet before. Which is what I called you. I immediately had an instant vertical connection with you. And I want to welcome you today.

I just felt like to be, I didn't hold back anything. It was sort of a wondrous meeting. I laughed a lot. And I deeply appreciate that.

That's what's real to me. I really appreciate the realness of our meeting and the holding back and sort of that experience, our two and a half hour conversation. I think Jenna can open up and amplify our New York City, vibrant living New York City, vibrant living New York, which is where people come out and really discover their superpowers together. And then the whole thing in the vibrant living challenge is once I see your super power, so Lisa super powers wonder, what's your super power, Jenna?

So I'd ask you, that's a cool thing to ask for the moment. Can I put your terribly on the spot doing that? I'm sorry. I just got a bad connection.

It's okay. It's all right. It's all right. I asked you and you can certainly introduce yourself because you do some wondrous work.

I was just asking, I was sort of noticing that our topic today was how do you amplify super powers together, which is sort of wondrous. I was curious how what your super power was. Absolutely. Well, it's funny enough.

I think that those are more on an individual basis, client, client practitioner meeting, the practitioner. That's exactly what my purpose is to help people actualize their high potential. You know, I feel that it's not just raulking, but the work that I do as a combination of raulking and other modalities that picked up over the years. It's sort of summed up in a single sentence.

It's creating a safe space for people to be felt, seen and heard in a way that their body will start to accept. There's like this inborn image potential that we all have and there are ways to help bring out that with inside of someone. Like you said, you get the thought viruses, which they just end up as good for the health of the organism. And underneath those thought viruses are much healthier patterns of being.

I think our inborn potential is underneath all of that. So the work that I do is about creating space for people to rediscover that which is inside them underneath all those patterns that have been put on top of culture and society. There's a lot of underlying order that we have inside of ourselves. It's really for me to bring that out of people.

You know, it's funny. We used to trigger to... Sometimes people call me because they hear about me right there. There's this one guy he's in college and he would keep calling me.

He says, Ralph was really excited one day and he says, you don't see anything. He's like, never saw before. Every time he called me over the summer, I'd say, you got to get your girlfriend on the phone. And he can never just say why this would occur.

Because I said to him, any time you have something, I want you to practice it with her. So you can see God and other people and you can see, you know, you have a feeling of lightness. I want you to give this to her and amplify it with her, okay? And it was so funny.

We get her on the phone, right? And I just see, she was sort of touched with the same time. It was so different for her. It was sort of different to Ralph.

So about eight years ago, when I had this huge awakening, I had a series of... I call them sulsings. I just saw stuff like three, four, five in the morning. I couldn't see during the day or night and informed me.

And how it informed me was, I had an experience of being able to sense people relationally. So like an example, I was sitting next to a couple. I could kind of sense how they were together. And then I could get a sense of how they could be closer.

I could get a sense of the talk viruses that were going on. And then, you know, probably within a couple years of that, I never got up one morning and said I'm going to be a vibrant matchmaker. But people were calling me and I did a coach, but then I realized, oh, what happens when a couple discovers this way together? Say whether it's your life crisis or the continuation of vibrant living in your vibrancy in your current in a moment.

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That's supportherrkeenrelief.org, brought to you by the Council. Though you're listening to the vibrant living network on Glen Brooks, in a moment, you guys have been experiencing what it's like to be in the vibrant living challenge. We're going to give Lisa something to explore, and this is exactly how we do it in our three month program. Alright, someone enters the room, and if someone said to me once, and I love to so much when he said this to me, the highest compliment, she was a doctor, and we're so connected to her.

She said, she's a doctor, and we're so connected to her. The first time we saw each other, the first time she said, well, I have a parent. I went to Brown University. I went to medical school.

I have friends. We're the first person to see me. So we practice seeing each other, and then we find a path of action. So as an example, Jenna's in the room.

He works on people's movement. I might say to some people, you know, I want you guys to be with Jenna so that what you feel and sense in your vision, you can move and I want you to work with Jenna because what happens is in this group, where you've been individually blocked. It's not a problem if you're being held back individually. Something different about being in this group.

It's something different about our path of action, how we see each other. So Lisa said, you just heard Jenna speak a little bit, and he said it was a raw, but I told no idea. They could take a raw for a German instrument. I don't know what it is, but I'm curious from his voice and anything that you felt.

What do you curious about? What do you curious about with Jenna right now? What strikes you so far in this conversation? First, I just want to make sure that I pronounce your name correctly.

Is it Genia or Jenna or Jenna? Well, you know, it's funny because even my two parents call me either Jen or Jenna. So I usually go by Jen. Okay.

So I'm not getting a bit more. Okay. No problem. So I would ask like, you know, so if something were coming to see you for the first time, it was your first interaction.

What when you when you start to engage in a conversation, where do your eyes go? What do you first notice? What direction, you know, does your intuition guide you and how to begin with the person when when you're just meeting them? Well, it's interesting you mentioned that because actually it's it's a concept they refer to in traditional Chinese internal martial arts like Tai Chi and Tigong and Bagua.

It's a concept called soft eyes where basically you're not focusing on anything. And so I do my best to actually not have any conscious thoughts and just try to see their entire body as one one single system and try to listen to everything without dwelling too much on any individual words or thoughts or actions that are coming from heaven. And what's happened is the larger patterns start to come to me. I mean, depending on who this is going to be, anything from I know it's something about the way that they're moving physically.

I know something about the way that they're putting their body attention or something where there's a limitation. And sometimes it's I noticed particular strength. You know, it can be so varied, but yeah, it's a very broad perspective and it's very intuitive. So it's the answer to it depends.

It depends on the individual in front of me. So listen with all of my faculty's attention to what's coming to me from that. That's very beautiful. And I guess that's what I was sensing from you.

I sort of really truly align myself with the philosophy of soft eyes. I think that's a brilliant way to walk through life, you know, to really to see people with soft eyes to feel them to notice what you notice to kind of instinctively. So I would imagine that with each person, it's almost like composing music or creating creating a dance that as you watch the way that they move in that you interact, you know, you kind of the score sorts sort of unfolds. Is that correct?

Yes, absolutely. I would completely agree with that analogy. As a matter of fact, I also play music. And I don't know if you've ever seen like a rock band and you've got sort of the solo guitarist and I've never seen a solo guitar.

It carried away where everybody's playing what they call in pocket and things and it starts ripping. And then you know, he's not in the same thing as the rest of the band. It's just not the same time. And he's in his own world.

And I feel that as practitioners in the past, I myself can also make other people's work, it can be used to get lost in your own beliefs about the person or what's in front of you. And sort of get lost in the modality that you're practicing within and sort of lose that present moment. And so that's, I think a lifelong endeavor is just trying to come back to that, come back to that, that's what's actually unfolding in front of you. That's beautiful.

And I would imagine that when you were engaging with Glenn, it was a lot like that. If your first conversation was two hours. So if Glenn were in your rock band, what instrument would he play? If Glenn were in my rock band, he would play every instrument.

We would switch instruments between cell. Absolutely. Glenn? Glenn?

Yes. Yeah. No, I love it. I always think that you've seen me in so many states and so many phases.

So I always think, well, that's what a loving relationship is. You've seen me in different places. You know, there was a woman who was having a stroke. I think it was Bonnie Bainbridge-Con.

I heard the story. I wasn't in the room, but she was aware she was having a stroke. And she asked people to line up around her and touch her in certain places and breathe from waves. And it was a very spontaneous thing.

And I realized that I love the analogy of, I love your question Lisa. And I love the analogy that that's what the vibrant living challenges like. Sometimes someone's sitting there and they need a little support in their back by they need to get up and dance. There's one woman, and I was in another course.

And this woman stood up and she says it's true story. She identified as being some kind of transgender. She said she always thought she didn't like them. And then she got up and she said, you know, she goes, I actually really do like the sense of a penis.

I saw one during the break. But it was a discovery. It was kind of like this. Like we live with something and we, I didn't want to call it a movie.

We kind of, we are a certain way. And the funny thing is illness is a blessing then because it sort of brings us to this other place of seeing. And then relationally. And this is where I think compassion comes in.

Because I know during my awakening, I see now that I always was a dark horse. I saw that I saw things differently. The moment was my thing. I couldn't get the linear world.

I couldn't get what people did. And so school didn't make any sense because that was in the horizontal. And every song I saw someone like Lisa and I could have this other conversation. And then during my awakening I realized that that's a relational phenomena.

Because what I see a lot of people do is they identify as an example of being an empath or they identify being psychic. And it's not integral. Like they kind of get, and for me it wasn't integral. It was two.

Now I discovered this relational dimension. And I realized when I was 11, I could never understand why people divorced. When I was 11, I know the words for it. And so it's interesting when I had my soul seeing and I had a conversation with, I think both of you would appreciate it.

I was talking to Bill Pettit. Bill Pettit is a man who's a psychiatrist that ran an institution. He's the most humble man I've ever met. And I could say that Bill had many situations where people would stand up during his meeting here and leave the institution.

And that was it. They had a spontaneous mental health awakening. And I talked to Bill about it one day and he's again incredibly humble. And he goes, well, all I did was I put their chart aside and I saw deep health in them.

And they would always cry. And one woman said, she goes, I've been in here 27 years and I've never been referred to as a healthy person. She went on to become a nurse. And every time I talked to Bill, I know what he said, this is what I wanted to pass on.

What he said to me Glenn is you can't explain something from the linear horizontal mic. And the linear horizontal mic will always be a medication. There's no other conversation. She's biochemically wounded forever.

See, that's the danger of this, these me conversations. That's why empowerment does not work. It's not based on a relational system. So when he said that to me, that was a different context.

I'll give the soul mind impact chemistry. So if we kind of as a group, we turn and we start to see each other and we come in from that place of reverence and listening, then we can begin to play with each other. Actually play like like almost like, Hey, what happened if you walked this way? But not as a correction.

I play with this guy volleyball. He goes, you want me to block? He goes, you want me to block? He goes, you want me to block?

He doesn't really like the relationship. He's so focused on the winning, right? But imagine if we in fact were one tiger. So it's like in these subtleties, in these subtleties, we actually become in a path of action and more powerful rather than attempting to come from these prime men to places.

So, you know, at least I always felt when I was around certain people in this world of movement, I felt like a very judgmental thing, a very separate thing. So when I mentioned the story earlier about Rose and seeing working with the man, it's like something is in her scene where she saw that movement and he picked up on it. He was able to pick up, that's his interpretation of that story. That something happens in seeing this, that's unexplainable and wondrous, that transfers to us.

That's rare. And I've always through my life, I've met people who've been catalysts for that, like John Gatto, who are dumbing us down. As soon as I got around John and me and Baron, Baron, Baron, that piece got together, me and Baron both left school, realizing that we were getting dumbed down and we both said to ourselves, being around John, we were getting smarter during that conversation. We're getting into this other topic.

I just want to not throw the topic because Lisa was kind enough to send me an outline here. I wrote the topic, we're going to dive into, which is totally related. He's going to be the ecstasy bond and vibrant matchmaking. I'm practicing now with your office with Dr.

Teshri. She said to send you a love, she's on a plane right now flying to LA. So we're going to talk about the ecstasy bond, which is going, imagine going beyond, imagine right now if you, imagine if you could give up dating, that's it. No more dating.

No more dating. And you could relate deeply and you could form a bond that's ecstasy filled, stabilizing, and you could be yourself in a way you've never been before. That's what we're going to explore on this next segment. I'm reading this.

I'm in school. I was reading my assignment just then. Lisa was kind enough to write out this. And I could walk in with somebody here and say we're going to talk about this in the next five days.

I could take a cue guard and do five days. Here I am. What were you going to say? You just reminded me of a fantastic quick story about Emily Conrad, who was the founder of Continuum Movement.

She was in a car accident a number of years ago before she passed. And it was really destroyed the car delays and two or a few ligaments in one of her needs. There's a period of time where the tissue had to heal, but there were certain connections in her knee without surgery that were just not going to heal. And she took about three months to do a move in and get the back of it.

And her knee was completely healed. Without surgery she was able to walk. She was able to run, to jump, dance. And she went back to the doctor and she got an MRI or x-ray.

And they said, I don't know how you're walking right now. None of the structures have reconnected. And so that same thing you're thinking you were talking about where you've got to be on medication for the rest of your life. It's not about necessarily trying to do things the way they were in the past, but she found a different way to do the same activities.

And it's just amazing. The human organism is so complex and there's potential for so much more than I think what this is the common cultural norm adapting for. Yeah, beautiful. And right here.

Right. Right now I'm visiting my 96 year old aunt who yesterday at 6 a.m. in the snow was out shoveling before I went outside. In most people's paradigms of what they believe is possible.

That's not possible, especially because she'd been to the doctor who diagnosed her with a sciatic who actually told me that I had the correct diagnosis, which totally took me off guard, but we're in Canadian medical model. So it's a little bit different. But, you know, it's about, you know, he said, recommended a walker and she wouldn't have anything to do with it. He said, well, just till you heal.

And she said, no, I'll manage. I'll get through. And I think that's a testament to the belief of how you're going to be and what your possibilities are. Well, let me do this for you.

And she said, well, you know, when you leave, I'm going to have to do this by myself. So it's not a problem. I've got it. It's a very good interesting lesson for me and a great model to follow for sure.

I love it. I'm sure Glenn, you'll be the same way, right? Well, you know, you know, it's what Jenna just said. So there's a book called Take Your Glessers Off and See by Dr.

Jacob Lieberman. I dialogue with my pastor. One of the interesting things when it's, I say I got much better and get rid of his glasses is that I guess on some level his diagnostics and change for his vision changed. He's able to see differently, but it didn't meet with the model.

So there's a decision between looking at seeing. So this is very interesting, very interesting. Again, it's a topic that lives outside of a linear box. It doesn't live in that linear description.

And yet, you know, I'm doing right, believe here, I'm actually going to go. I think she's one of the head librarians in the whole state of Massachusetts. We're going to have a conversation about the power third space. What happens in a third space?

How is it different? That third space is the place that's different than worker home. Okay, the XSE bond. Here we go.

This is a lot of fun. The XSE bond is vibrant, much making. All right, so imagine if you could go beyond dating. It's a relating.

So I'm going to talk a moment about cupus poison and cupus medicine. So cupus poison happens around dating. How it happens is is people attempt to get to know each other and they kind of all those thought viruses, right? Like, is that person going to be like this?

Or are they going to be like that? And so it happens from some of an unstabilized place. Now, we're not even during this process. And I want to explain this to you guys.

So there's two different parts of our system. One part of our system is because most people are 100% touch deprived. So what happens is when people have sex from this one place in the system, the sympathetic place, and they have a lot of sexualness, but there's nothing wrong with it. It's just at a deeper level, which is cupus medicine.

So how do I work with people who come to see me? So vibrant matchmaking is for people who sense there is a wonder and magnificence in monogamy dedicated devoted monogamy. Then when does that start? When does a relationship start?

Well, I tell people it starts when you hear someone's voice and it begins to speak in you and resonate in you. So I teach people, and I don't just teach them, I share with them breathing and awareness practices that start them from the we place rather than the me place immediately. So why do I do that? Well, because inherent dating and internet matchmaking, which includes texting and email, which doesn't hit the deeper brain, it doesn't allow us to feel this deeper resident.

So vibrant matchmaking is the ability to connect with someone from a relational place that's uncommon and real and beautiful. Stay with us for more of the vibrant living network. That's right. More brilliant awareness from Lisa and Jenna and you in a moment.

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Hi, you listening to the Viber Living Network along with beautiful Lisa Rose, Jenna, who works Magic with People's Belly, she works with a modality called Rolfing, she's also a martial artist, and apparently an MMA fighter apparently. I want to welcome you guys here. I want to share with you how I just start with this whole Beyond Dating to Relating stuff. I just want to share with you.

If you're going through a crisis or you're going through something, there's a lot of people who a lot of people are. So I didn't get up one day and said I wanted to be a matchmaker. I had no interest in being a matchmaker. But what happened was people contacted me no matter what I was doing, actually it was happening in my life.

I was selling a car, and by the way you think I should say what my boy is drinking a lot. This happened regularly. After I had this part of my life where I had these, what I would call these things, it changed me. I started to breathe different.

I breathed in the place of my body. I never breathed before. But this one woman came to see me, Yvonne. And I had women coming to see me for all the country.

And she called me up. We had a series of conversations. She told me seriously thinking about leaving our husband up for 30 years. And I said, we'll just come.

I said, we'll hike the mountains together. And we did. And it's funny enough, you're going to like this. I recommend her and her and her.

We'll get it all together. She never heard her off. She's been around yoga for like 15 years. And I said, I want you guys to have a new beginning.

I want you to feel a movement. This is part of our matchmaking. I teach him internal she. That's a natural movement.

And that's how people meet. And we come together in our city through vibrant living. We have something about it. How do you know?

It's not just about the relational movement that you share and energize each other. So they started to get it all together. And what began to happen was unexpected. So I expected this.

Yvonne sent me a check with $350 and said, Glenn, what we did together with our precious. And I thought, oh, so what you're doing, you're like, it's kind of like we get distracted away from this by the law. In other words, people say, well, you got to do this. You got to do this.

You got to do this. A lot of people say, well, it's alive. But as our nervous system changes and it changes the most beautiful way that it changes with someone else. Right?

The vibrant intimacy. So when I say with people, I might refer them to Lisa or Jenna because I know that they're nervous. It's a different input. So for instance, I'll give you an example.

I just did a vibrant matchmaking with a woman out of Stovermont. And I can feel her breath change and her voice. And she says to me, well, the guy that I went out with last time, this is like 10 years ago when she lived in California, he started to talk to me about another man when we were making love. And I can feel in her breath right then and there.

She injected this arthritis. And how it plays out is she's cautious. A lot of people in the dating world, I don't care what's this spiritual dating world is caution. So as an example, I just, I actually, I call these relating.

I sent someone and I said, I want you guys to relate for a month. And on your second meeting, I want you to touch pinkies. So when you meet someone, I want you to play with this. Imagine just touching the interview toes and just sailing for a moment.

Because when happens when you meet someone, a lot of times that caution response. And this would happen sometimes when someone would come to see you from out of town. They'd be like, why are you going to see this guy? He could be a killer.

And I would say to them, I say, all these people are the cons of the trans services. Why don't you ask them what their life is like? So vibrant matchmaking is the ability to go beyond dating and to find a level of union. And by the way, the most powerful way we could be in relationship is we have cycles of resting, nesting, lovemaking and wild sex.

And why I put those things together, different aspects of our nervous system. What we're really doing is giving each other, and I call this in my work, a lot of intelligence. I'm asking people to own and play with parts of aspects of themselves and be bold enough to share that. And so sometimes how I do that is I just breathe with people.

And then I use, I apply the movements. I want to go least out. You've been around people later in the dating world. And you're really tuned and say a lot of people tell me what your response is about what bubbles are you when I talk about going beyond dating to relating.

What I'm very curious about the touching toes aspect. I think it's it's goes along with your reminder to breathe. I think so many times that we hold our breath and I'm sure that in the apprehension of meeting somebody new or going out on a date, most people can relate to that feeling where they just hold their breath and they're just like you said, the cautionary engagement. And I think, you know, when you just take a moment, you know, to kind of breathe and notice something unique and even, you know, if you're not physically touching your toes, just mentally going through that exercise allows you to to reframe your nervous system.

I think that's really beautiful. Yeah, so you start to have this other place where you could actually see I was very lucky. I had a personal relationship with Dr. Valerie Hunt who studied healers around the world.

She was at UCLA for characters in a movie by the way called Resurrection. First profound mainstream movie on kind of healing. It was very profound. She was someone played around the movie and.

I want to say by the way, I want to say I'm back with on a dirt road. For some reason, the replan the road today. I want to say let me have this orchestrated thing. Thank you Lisa.

I don't think I'm going to be attracted to be attracted around me. That's a movie. Okay, so I love that you brought this up. So what happens with people like this different breaths.

So is an example of you know this your breath. And I noticed that with the woman I just had the consultation with is the contraction breath. So we make our we make a decision out of that breath like he's scarier. He's creepy.

We also get involved with car viruses. So happens we don't really see the person. So by the way, every time I do it, it's so delightful. Like when I first touch toes when I'm meeting with someone and sometimes I'll make a joke and like someone will come and come see me and I'll say, well, you know, I'm not able to date.

I just can't do that. So they'll say why and we make it as a playful thing. And I'm also I'm being straightforward. But I'm using.

I'm using as an opportunity to relate to them and be vulnerable and open about why I'm a day and also at the deepest level. You see I've done something very different in my inner system. I and this is in the book divorce the patterns on each other in the film. I never divorced the person I was within my heart.

So I I I started to see that what we call divorce and breakups is often an overloading of a system. And we conclude on someone we conclude and it's abrupt. Now when we conclude and it's abrupt or even if it's not about but it's low and it's neutral and we kind of die a little bit. And so the idea of meeting someone is such a deep honor and I also appreciate the anthropology of the conditioning we have as men and women.

It's so the humanizing disconnecting at the level at the level of the problem at the level of the discussion. But I've had the honor to be in rooms of the people now where the wonder of the feminine the innocence and wonder of the feminine the innocence of the masculine is so different than the counterfeit conversation that includes dating. As a matter of fact I don't think the divine can make it dating. I think it takes it takes an ability to step back and almost be graced to relate to someone given the fact we have these thought viruses.

And so there's a wonder to it. Jen I want you to say something because you work with people systems and bodies and I encourage people to go to this type of work together. I asked them to embark on a system like you have a new reference for each other's nervous system. One quick comment this woman said call me back because I was going to this eight years ago.

I was on my intense relational son. And she said, we're working with an EMDR practitioner. So it releases comments from the eye. We're doing it as a couple with the 10 different people.

She says, I love my husband away. I never have before. So it kind of I was going to ask you when you touch someone's bodies in the beautiful work that you do. Has it altered the relationship or have they moved to share this with their part of what your experience?

Well, you know, I always have to start by saying it depends. And you know, I said that back in school, you know, that was the most frustrating thing for me to hear from from my instructor that asked him a very specific question. Yeah. And I wanted a very specific answer and they'd like to depend.

But I would say that, you know, in what I would consider my ideal outcome. Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. You know, as different channels of awareness are opened up in the individual I'm working with, those are more channels for connection with others.

And of course that includes their, their lovers. And I think that, you know, I've had situations where people have people have their relationships and I do my best to try not to give any personal advice or opinions on moving one direction or another. I let people, you know, come to their own choices on things. But, you know, I think that helps facilitate connecting people deeper and I've also helped facilitate people moving out of relationships.

They felt when I'm under serving them. I want to ask you, Lisa, the same question. I want to say that I have the same response from when the Mr. Softy truck driver pulled up when he asked me what I wanted to order.

I would say it depends because there's weather factors that heat of the day. I want a big chocolate smoothie, you know, kind of thing. I thought you could have some prime level to my Mrs. Softy.

It depends comment. So what I found in this work in the relationship work, I've almost found it highly unusual that people don't, it's one woman from her hospital bed said to me, she wrote about makeup, don't break up. She says, I've never, she's worked with a lot of people. I've never seen a couple that were in an authentic breakup divorce.

She said, we're dealing with a salmonal, disbalanced depletion and the frozen waves seeing each other. Lisa, you're working with people. Do you find it? Have you had an experience that when people have union with their families impacted them on an individual level?

Have you found relational union or physically shifting their relationship with a, they talked to someone, haven't talked to us, but what's been your experience? Relationally with people. I think that's one of the deepest keys to healing Glenn and it, you know, so many different studies are proving it that in, I believe in England, they're encouraging community that they find that the individuals that are connected, not just to family members, but if they're, they no longer have family members. If the community reaches out to them that they have fewer visits to the doctor, that everything seems to shift.

And I think that there's a certain vibrancy in engaging in that when you're able to reconnect with, whether it be a friend or a loved one that you haven't normally spoken to after you get off the phone with them or, you know, meet for lunch, you know, you walk a little bit lighter. There's something different in your movement and your step. I think it just, it just makes you feel freer and happier and I'm sure that you can stay the same. Oh, God.

Yeah. No, go ahead. No, I was just going to say that you said that. I love that you said it because I hear it for your beautiful voice and it comes alive in me.

It's kind of like, it's not just information. It's, it's, it's just wonder. So yeah, when we go to do our Robert Living Matchmaking, you know, weekends in New York is an example. It's all in private taking risk.

Great love requires great risk. And I'll be doing this work at Dr. Tesh's office and I know that Lisa knows how to spell Tesh's name. I don't.

So if you want to go to Dr. Tesh's website, we've a write up on there that because Lisa, Lisa, Lisa, Lisa such a kind person Jenna, that she wouldn't let me lose in the first round. At a telling me, she would help me telepathically or right in the back of her hand. That's how supportive she is.

Yeah. Yes. Yeah. Dr.

Tesh N.A.com. So it's www.drtes.com. Yes, Lisa. That's, I love what you just said.

As a matter of fact, it was one day in my little town. I thought we also gave each other one day and I thought we should do this on a weekly basis. Like, what we do is we don't think of each other. We kind of hold stuff in our body.

We see this person. We hold our brass and we kind of look the other way. And I thought, you know, this is really unpleasant. This whole, you know, like, let's play people by their scripts.

Okay. I'm going to give you something pass on to your relationship. Okay. This is a relational moment of the day, the vibrant relational moment.

I'm also a vibrant intimacy coach. Here's your intimacy. Here's your intimacy moment. When you have a fight with your partner, if you argue, I want you to take their offering.

So if I come up to you and they say, what's up? I want you to receive that's called an offering that resets the nervous system of the breath. So fighting comes in relationship because sometimes our nervous system is going, well, sometimes you're fighting someone's aunt and through their, you're fighting something, it's not even them. But the offering means everything.

Let your partner hold you. Let them touch you. Let them make that offering and receive it. Receive it deeply.

So Lisa, there's a few people that have been in my life. I've been so happy. The greatest part of my life has been that's become holy ground to me. When I bridge the gap, there's one person right now.

I'm thinking of he's giving me $50,000 with no contract, $50,000. We have a falling out last year. He knows who he is. He loves me and we have a falling out because we fell into a pattern.

My vision before the year, Lisa, he's going to come on and we're going to reconnect. That's my vision. And you're going to be part of that. I welcome that opportunity.

You're going to be part of that because I know that I know that even though when I call this phone number and it goes to one ring because it's clean that after you invite them on because we're going to do a vibrant relational moment. We're going to do a collaboration because someone just doesn't pay you $50,000 with no contract and have that relationship. What happens in our life is we, the pattern takes us over and then we think he needs to get away. I want us to get another option, which is to breathe together in a different way, to not make the pattern bigger than you guys and to do that forever.

I want to suggest the idea that a radical longevity and we've got an upcoming series. I don't want to say he's saying because he's pretty renowned, but I'm pretty sure we're going to wear the world's leading brain and deep love people. So with that, we're going to do a year. How to reverse Alzheimer's.

We're going to do a year. How to grow your brain younger and bring one. We should. I love you and I appreciate you deeply.

Jenna. Thank you for opening up and energizing. By living New York and by living Vermont, we're going to be giving a lot of vacations away to the people in New York City to be in touch with me directly about your vibrant vision of being a speaker of being on our network. 413-345-3747.

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