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EPISODE · Mar 16, 2026 · 42 MIN

The Fearful Avoidant Hot-and-Cold Cycle | Why They Pull You Close Then Push You Away

from The Reflective Mind · host Christina Stuller

Why do some people feel incredibly close one moment and completely distant the next?In this episode of The Reflective Mind, Christina Stuller breaks down the fearful avoidant attachment cycle and why it creates the confusing “hot and cold” dynamic many people experience in relationships. You’ll learn why fearful avoidant individuals crave connection but also fear it, how this push-pull pattern forms, and why people often mistake it for passion instead of unresolved attachment wounds.Understanding this cycle can help you stop chasing emotional inconsistency and start recognizing the deeper patterns behind it.If you’re ready to understand your relationship patterns and stop repeating the same painful cycles, you can schedule a session with Christina athttps://healingmyfeelings.com

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