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EPISODE · May 4, 2026 · 34 MIN

The Fee vs. The Fine: The Real Cost Of Pretending To Be Someone Else

from Conversations With Candice

We're almost at the end of Chapter One and this episode is the one you've been building towards. After weeks of laying foundations, clearing out the rubble, and doing the deep internal work, it's finally time to talk about self-expression. What it looks like to actually show up as yourself in the world. Not performing. Not seeking permission. Not dressing for someone else's approval. Just you, fully expressed.In this episode, Candice breaks down:Why knowing yourself and believing in yourself are two very different thingsThe real cost of cosplaying as someone you're not (the fee vs. the fine)How dressing intentionally can be the fastest shortcut to your highest alignmentWhy self-expression is not about approval it's a statement, not a questionThe difference between "do you like who I am?" and "this is who I am"3 journal prompts to take into the next 7 daysIf you've been here since Episode 1, this one's for you. The cocoon is done. It's time to come out.Conversations with Candice is a series for anyone who's ready to rebuild from the inside out, one honest, unfiltered conversation at a time.Available on all major podcast platformsEnjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation.Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week.Get in touch: [email protected] on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candiceWatch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepodFollow Candice:Instagram: @candicebrathwaiteTikTok: @candicebrathwaiteIf you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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