The Feelings We Pretend We Don’t Have (But Definitely Do)

We all have feelings we wish we didn’t. Jealousy, resentment, comparison...the kind of emotions that make us feel a little gross, even though they’re totally human. In this advice column episode, I’m answering three Hello Hayes advice letters about: 💔 A former friend struggling to let go of resentment toward their ex-best friend’s success 🤰 A woman grieving a miscarriage while navigating her cousin’s pregnancy (TW: See timestamps below to skip this section!) 💍 And a bride-to-be who suddenly isn’t sure if size matters when it comes to engagement rings Instead of pretending we’re above it all, let’s actually unpack these feelings and figure out how to deal with them. TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Our ugly feelings 1:13 - Letter 1: My ex-best friend is thriving, and I hate it 12:40 - Letter 2: My cousin’s pregnancy announcement hit me hard 25:23 - Letter 3: My fiancé’s twin bought a bigger ring... and now I feel weird Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices