The First Lady's Perspective on Masonry

Summary:In this episode of the Grand Masters Chatcast, host Dan Tooker welcomes AJ Brown, the Grand Master of Iowa, and his wife Marlo, affectionately known as Toots. They discuss the challenges and joys of balancing a busy Masonic schedule with family life, the role of the First Lady in Masonry, and the dynamics of navigating Masonic cliques. AJ shares personal stories about their journey into Masonry and how they manage their family involvement in Masonic activities, emphasizing the importance of support systems and making the most of their experiences together. In this engaging conversation, Dan Tooker and AJ Brown discuss the intricacies of family dynamics within the Masonic community, the structure and leadership of the Grand Lodge, and the personal journeys of those involved. They reflect on the challenges and joys of balancing personal life with Masonic duties, the importance of community engagement, and the future of Masonry in Iowa. The dialogue emphasizes transparency, support, and the shared experiences that bind the Masonic community together.TakeawaysAJ is halfway through his year as Grand Master and still enjoying it.The variety of events keeps the Masonic experience fresh and exciting.Toots emphasizes the importance of staying informed about AJ's schedule.Balancing work and Masonic duties can be challenging but rewarding.Family support plays a crucial role in managing busy schedules.Masonic events can serve as opportunities for family bonding.Navigating cliques in Masonry is a common experience for both men and women.AJ and Toots have a blended family and embrace their unique dynamics.They use Masonic events as a chance for mini-adventures together.Involving children in Masonic activities can foster their interest and enjoyment. Some families may view masonry negatively due to time away.The structure of Grand Lodge leadership allows for breaks.AJ enjoys the hardcore year of being a Grand Lodge officer.Kids grow up with masonry as a part of their lives.Territorial behavior exists within social circles in masonry.AJ's energetic personality is a family trait.Traveling and meeting new people is a highlight of the journey.Communication and engagement with local lodges is crucial.The Grand Lodge rally was well-received and interactive.Community initiatives like the square meal project are important.