The Four's Sacred Longing | Beauty, Grief & Trusting God with Deanna Sudom

Send us Fan MailWholehearted Enneagram: A Year Through the Types | Type Four | Episode 1 of 4What does it look like to be the most feeling person in the room… and spend years believing that made you too much?Amy opens Type Four month with something that has never happened in this series before: Deanna Sudom, her trusted colleague and co-teacher all year long, steps out from behind the teaching role and into the guest chair to share her own story as a Type Four.Deanna came to Amy as a coaching client. She did her own wholehearted work. She became a certified Wholehearted Coach. And now she is one of the most trusted voices on Amy's team — a Four who found her way from longing to offering, from feeling too much to giving her depth as a gift.You'll hear about:The Four's core longing to be seen, known, and understood — and the fear that full knowing would mean rejectionWhy Fours aren't dramatic or self-indulgent — they are among the most honest people you will ever knowWhat envy actually feels like from the inside — and why it is not about wanting what someone else hasThe Seven-Four dynamic between Amy and Deanna — what complementary opposites look like in a real working relationshipHow Deanna's own wholehearted journey moved her from client to coach to trusted discernment partnerWhat Fours most need to hear about being known by God without being fixed by HimYou are not too much. You were made to feel deeply, and the world needs what only you can name.The Enneagram can name your patterns. It can't set you free from them. That's the difference between insight and transformation, and it's the whole focus of this summit.Learn more, check out the speakers & get your free seat!https://www.simplywholehearted.com/wholehearted-2026Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite