EPISODE · Apr 30, 2025 · 42 MIN
The Friend Breakup Nobody Talks About — Susan Shapiro on Female Friendship After 40 ★ Best pick
from Diva Tonight with Carlene Humphrey · host Carlene Humphrey
Female friendships aren't always forever—and that might be exactly how it should be. In this revealing conversation with author Susan Shapiro Barash about her new book "Estranged: How Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended," we explore the complicated reality behind those seemingly unbreakable bonds.The statistics are striking: 88% of women have had significant problems with close friends, and surprisingly, 75% feel more obligated to stay in troubled friendships than in problematic romantic relationships. Through extensive interviews with women across America, Barash uncovered seven distinct types of friendship challenges that often lead to estrangement—from the faithless friend who prioritizes romantic interests over friendship to the jealous friend who can't celebrate your success.Susan Shapiro Barash joins us to discuss her 18th book, "Estranged: How Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended," revealing why women often feel more obligated to stay in toxic friendships than romantic relationships.• Research from 150 women showing 88% have had problems with close friends• Seven types of problematic friendships including the faithless friend, green-eyed friend, and wayward friend• Why shared history often keeps women in unhealthy friendships longer than necessary• How COVID prompted many women to reevaluate and sometimes end long-term friendships• The emerging trend of women estranging "from a place of power and voice" rather than staying in damaging relationships• Differences between sister relationships and friendships• How competition and jealousy impact female friendships in a patriarchal society• Questions to ask yourself when evaluating troubled friendshipsFind Susan's new book "Estranged: How Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended" at your local bookstore or online. Follow Susan on Instagram for updates on her book tour.If you would like to read her new book or follow her work check out her website! https://susanshapirobarash.comSend us Fan MailSupport the showConnect with Diva TonightThank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with a friend. Stay connected with the show across all official platforms:📷 Instagram: @diivaontheradio – Behind-the-scenes content and daily updates.👥 Facebook: @Diivaontheradio – Join our community and share your thoughts on this episode.🎵 TikTok: @diivaontheradio – Catch the best short-form video highlights.🐦 Twitter/X: @DivaontheRadio – Live-tweeting and trending conversations.📺 YouTube: @diivaontheradio – Watch full video episodes and exclusive clips....
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Female friendships aren't always forever—and that might be exactly how it should be. In this revealing conversation with author Susan Shapiro Barash about her new book "Estranged: How Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended," we explore the complicated reality behind those seemingly unbreakable bonds. The statistics are striking: 88% of women have had significant problems with close friends, and surprisingly, 75% feel more obligated to stay in troubled friendships than in problematic romantic...
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