Connor Cardew - Presence over Performance

Send us Fan MailWhat does it mean to be truly present for your children? For Connor Cardew, VP of Digital Prospectors and a former college fullback at Bryant University, the answer lies in five simple but powerful words passed down from his father: family, love, trust, respect, and responsibility.Connor's journey through fatherhood beautifully illustrates how our own upbringing shapes the parents we become. Raised as the middle child between two brothers, Connor grew up with parents who prioritized involvement in every aspect of their children's lives – from coaching youth sports to creating memorable experiences like having the parents play soccer against the kids while dressed in costumes. These foundations now guide Connor and his wife, as they navigate parenthood with his three children.The honest conversation explores one of modern parenting's greatest challenges – balancing career demands with family life. Connor candidly shares his evolution from missing bedtimes due to long work hours to finding a more flexible arrangement that allows him to be present for the moments that matter. His biggest ongoing work? Learning to leave professional frustrations at the door when entering family time, something many parents struggle with daily.What makes this conversation particularly valuable is Connor's willingness to examine his own shortcomings. He acknowledges his work on patience and shares practical wisdom about letting go of rigid expectations when parenting young children. Rather than becoming frustrated when plans inevitably derail, he's learned to pivot and create meaningful moments within the chaos.Connor's reflection reminds us that fatherhood isn't about perfection – it's about presence. Children don't care about your title or achievements; they simply want you there, engaged and available. By prioritizing relationships over schedules and connection over performance, we create the foundation for our most important legacy.Have you found yourself struggling with patience in parenting or leaving work stress at the door? Connect with us to share your experiences and learn from other dads working to become better quarterbacks of their homes.Support the showPlease don't forget to leave us a review wherever you consume your podcasts!  Please help us get more dads to listen weekly and become the ultimate leader of their homes!