The Golden Cage: How Wealth and Status Trap You in a Manipulative Marriage, with Mia J. Hanks

What happens when you have everything — the gated home, the charmed life, the husband everyone admires — and none of it is real? Author Mia J. Hanks spent 29 years married to a covert narcissist before walking away from it all. In this episode, Mia and Robin discover unsettling parallels in their stories: the slow erasure of identity, the moment a therapist's simple question exposed just how lost they'd become, and why the people closest to them couldn't help. Mia reveals what finally broke the spell — including a jaw-dropping moment in couples counseling that has to be heard to be believed. If you or someone you love seems to "have it all" but something feels deeply wrong, this one's for you.   Mia's Books: Bride-Maid: A Memoir by Mia J. Hanks I've Made Plans: A Memoir of Rebuilding by Mia J. Hanks   Topics 01:16 Meet Mia Hanks 02:48 Covert Narcissist Explained 04:13 Leaving and Divorce Timeline 05:09 Losing Yourself to Gaslighting 07:28 Why Victims Get Targeted 10:31 Early Warnings and Denial 12:25 Financial Control Wake Up 13:30 Freedom Over Status 17:17 The Moment She Was Done 18:04 Therapist Kicks Him Out 20:40 Advice and Closing Thoughts