The Great Lesbian Divide: Butch vs Femme ft. Pkat and Haviah Mighty

What does it really mean to be a lesbian? Is it a vibe? A gender? A political stance? We’re diving headfirst into the evolution of lesbian identity—breaking down butch and femme history, masculinity, queerness, and what it truly means to de-center men (spoiler: it’s liberating). With three wildly different lesbians at the table - Haviah, Pkat, and Karbon - we’re serving history, academic drama, and personal hot takes. It’s intellectual, it’s unhinged, and it’s very, very gay. Buckle up, baby dykes. Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW PKAT Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p.kat.nye/ FOLLOW HAVIAH Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haviahmighty/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 intro 05:18 the lesbian identity 12:17 the masculine/feminine dilemma 24:52 discovery of lesbianism 38:02 the lesbian sub-identities 50:48 white vs bipoc lesbians 01:05:46 is lesbian a queer identity? 01:13:37 femmes don't get enough credit 01:25:11 do mascs get more dates? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.