The Greatest Challenge With Life Is... (5) – Paul D. Lowe & Rebecca Wheele

On this episode of the World Game-Changers podcast, Paul is joined by returning guest & host Rebecca Wheele for the fifth and final episode in a series of deep-dive conversations about what they each think is the greatest challenge in life. KEY TAKEAWAYS Our greatest challenge is fear because it underpins everything. The fear of change: You’re not making those changes, deep down you fear losing control of your life and/or losing the acceptance of those around you. Say: “I choose to be fearless”. You will have moments of doubt at doing new things you’ve never done before, but we have a choice around how we handle them. Sending the word “fearless” down to your subconsciousness will help you become that in your consciousness. Life’s for living. I think these conversations are beautiful, they’re great and I love our particular dance around them. But, I think ultimately it’s about realising do these stories serve us? Don’t analyse it, play with it and embrace that childlike curiosity. It’s a very simple choice; do you want to be Shufflefoot or Shuffle Foot-esque (an identity Paul embraced for a long time earlier in life) or do you want to be Superman or woman. Children don’t harbour the fear that we do as adults, they haven’t learned that yet. A lot of that is brought around by conditioning. Our parents and loved ones are there to help guide us to learn the easy way rather than the hard way. BEST MOMENTS ‘Everything that is not going right in your life such as money, relationships, anxiety, stress, etc is a result of fear caused by your need for control and acceptance. The more things that are wrong, or not ideal, the more fear you will have.’ ‘Fear is not all bad because it can be a guiding light to where you need to go.’ ‘Fear seems to be something that, if you run away from, it gets bigger and it’ll chase you and present in things that are completely unrelated.’ ‘Fear is a great servant but a bad master.’ VALUABLE RESOURCES Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272 Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272 Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679 Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679 Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon) World Game-Changers Group ABOUT THE GUEST Rebecca is an artist and designer based in the South of England. She graduated from Kingston University in London 2013 with a degree in Illustration and Animation. After a shift in direction and new challenge working as a lifeguard and in management in the leisure industry, she went travelling around the world through South East Asia, Australia and New Zealand. She returned to the UK, to begin a journey working commercially in art and design. Rebecca works together with people to create logos, help with branding, design or re-vamp websites and generally loves to get involved with creative projects. She works across all industries and loves listening to people and understanding what their business is about, why they do what they do and translating this into a form of visual communication. Rebecca is a seeker of the spiritual and inspired by the power and beauty in nature; from colour, form and pattern, to how we can look to nature as a guide and teacher in life.  www.rebeccawheele.com ABOUT THE HOSTPaul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational. Developing World Game-Changers… He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.   This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring.  He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide. Through his World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising. 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