The GUILT an ABUSER feels sends them into a spiral of self-destruction

GUILT: The abuser experiences self-directed guilt, not normal guilt. Non-abusive people feel guilt for inflicting pain or hurting others (i.e., victim-directed guilt). Abusers feel self-directed guilt (i.e., “I shouldn't have done it. Now I might get caught.”) . The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull #sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse #abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim #rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive #abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative #gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming #homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by a group of ASIAN men to see how rape really feels sydell'