EPISODE · Apr 29, 2026 · 22 MIN
The Guilt Of Making It
from Learn To Heal with Lwanele Khasu · host Lwanele Khasu
Sometimes making it does not feel the way you thought it would.Instead of pride or excitement, it can come with guilt. Guilt for doing better than the people you love. Guilt for having more. Guilt for choosing yourself, your growth, your opportunities.In this episode, we explore the emotional weight of being the one who made it. The pressure to give back, to carry others, to not move too far ahead. We talk about overextending yourself, feeling responsible for everyone, and the quiet conflict between your progress and your relationships.We also unpack how to understand this guilt without letting it control you. Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych
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Sometimes making it does not feel the way you thought it would.Instead of pride or excitement, it can come with guilt. Guilt for doing better than the people you love. Guilt for having more. Guilt for choosing yourself, your growth, your opportunities.In this episode, we explore the emotional weight of being the one who made it. The pressure to give back, to carry others, to not move too far ahead. We talk about overextending yourself, feeling responsible for everyone, and the quiet conflict between your progress and your relationships.We also unpack how to understand this guilt without letting it control you. Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych
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