The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: Mental Health and Relief from Depression with Erotica Author Tanya Cienfuegos

Ep 581: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: Mental Health and Relief from Depression with Tanya Cienfuegos.Topics discussed include: Healing Power Of Smut, Erotica Author, Sexual Wellness, Mental Health, Benefits Of Reading Smut, Writing Erotic Fiction, Censorship In Literature, Cultural Attitudes Towards Sex, Erotica And Horror, Subversive Literature, Self-Publishing, Female Pleasure In Erotica, Exploring Desires, Therapeutic Benefits Of Writing, Indie Authors, Erotic Fiction For Mental Health, Stigma Around Smut, Erotic Storytelling, Relationship Dynamics In Erotica, Erotica GenresSummary:  The Healing Power of Smut, Exploring Erotica's BenefitsIn this episode, we explore the fascinating topic of the healing power of smut with Tanya Cienfuegos, a self-published erotica author. Join us as we delve into how erotic fiction can serve as a tool for mental well-being, to enhance sexual wellness, provide a distraction and/or relief from depression, and provide a safe space for exploring desires. From discussing the stigmas around smut to the therapeutic benefits of reading and writing erotic content, we chat about it all!Guest Bio:Author Tanya Cienfuegos self-publishes erotica. She writes m/f contemporary and historical short stories.  She was born and raised in Southern California. When she's not writing, she's either scrolling through tumblr or playing solitaire.https://www.tumblr.com/tanya-cienfuegoshttps://www.bookbub.com/profile/tanya-cienfuegosLinks for buying books.https://books2read.com/ap/nmjW2z/Tanya-Cienfuegoshttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Tanya-Cienfuegos/author/B0BNGWKVHBChapters:(00:00) With Ruan Willow podcast I talk about sexuality, sexual wellness and wellbeing(01:30) Tanya Cienfuegos writes erotic short stories(07:11) Reading can distract you, but it also makes you feel alive(12:29) I think our culture is very shaming of it. There seems to be this idea specifically with sex...(18:37) There is a strong connection between erotica and horror(24:00) Not having a good enough distinction between, like Fiction and reality(28:44) The only thing I get up in arms about is if something's abusive(29:41) Do you ever write about kinky stuff or what kind of stuff(35:03) It's a way to explore these things in a safe way(35:42) So what, what brought you to want to include sex in your writing(40:56) I do prefer happy endings over sad endings(44:28) People have been trying to censor stuff since the beginning of the written word(47:39) You've self published eight books altogether. What else would you like to tell us about your writing(51:36) There's been a lot of criticism about Lucy's promiscuity in Dracula(58:03) Payment processors don't want to do anything to do with eroticaNotes made with the assistance of Headliner aiSupport the showSubscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge