The Healing Power of Smut, Part 6: from Repression to Midlife Expression in Erotic Literature with Ramone Quides

Ep: 598 From Repression to Expression: A Writer's Journey into Erotic Literature. Guest Bio: Ramone Quides is a renaissance polymath who discovered the joys and fulfillment of creative writing later in life. He enjoys writing diverse, connective stories that elevate and celebrate all the places the unencumbered minds can wander. The array of fictional literary erotica he's dreamt up for your enjoyment are intended to tickle your overt and covert interests and fantasies. His celebrations of varied genders, interests and preferences have been published in: The Big Book of Quickies by Rachel Kramer Bussel (affiliate links for books) https://amzn.to/3Y6zDMQ Erotica For Men: And the Women Who Love Them, Volume II by Rose Caraway https://amzn.to/3Gf93Ln Rosy: A women's health and wellness site that uses erotica as one of their resources to increase sexual desire eLust: A monthly publication with broad-ranging content that includes stories, poetry, advice, reviews, and insights from writers Theo: A site containing stories from romance on up from some of the greatest writers of our generation Stories, blog posts and/or commentary can also be found at ramonequides.com Instagram, BlueSky, Threads and Twitter as @ramonequides Summary: Discover how embracing creativity later in life led Ramone to find his voice through erotic storytelling. In this episode, Ramone shares his transformation from a life of emotional repression to becoming a passionate writer of diverse and healing erotic literature. The conversation explores how societal expectations initially stifled Ramone's self-expression until a pivotal moment in his 40s changed everything. After dedicating a year to creative exploration, he emerged with three distinct stories under a carefully chosen pseudonym, channeling years of "quiet desperation" into empowering narratives. We dive deep into discussions about the intersection of creativity, sexuality, and personal growth. Ramone reveals how his journey has not only enhanced his writing but also deepened his relationship with his partner, leading to more open communication and a flourishing intimate life well into his 60s. Listen now to discover how it's never too late to pursue your passion and find personal freedom through art. Excerpt:  Enjoy an excerpt at the end of the interview from Ramone's story "A Second Chance at Submission" narrated by Ruan Willow. Key Takeaways: • Ramon began writing erotic stories later in life, highlighting that it's never too late to pursue creative passions.   • He views erotic literature as a powerful tool for emotional healing and personal growth, challenging societal norms around sexuality.   • The episode emphasizes midlife as an opportunity for self-acceptance and deeper intimacy, promoting open communication in relationships. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow