The Heart of Masculinity: Finding Support in Groups of Men with Percy Hawkes

Continuing on the theme of “Why is talking openly and honestly about changes in erectile function still so taboo among men?” Erica Leroye speaks with Percy Hawkes, LMFT, Surrogate Partner, and founder of the Portland Queer Healers Collective, about his years facilitating men’s groups for both hetero and queer men and the wisdom and lessons we can apply as partners, providers and peers. With compassion and curiosity they discuss: Embracing Softness and Connection in male relationships Exploring societal and cultural barriers to open communication about health and strategies to encourage vulnerability and authenticity with peers partners and providers Body Acceptance and Aging The value of men's groups in an era of growing isolation and loneliness and the power of sharing stories for mental and physical well-being Resource Mentioned in this Conversation: The Mankind Project https://mankindproject.org/ For More Information and to Connect With Percy Hawkes https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/percy-hawkes-portland-or/390834 For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our store www.softcockweek.com/store Takeaways Men often struggle to communicate about sexual health and function. Group dynamics can facilitate open discussions among men. Body acceptance is crucial as men age and face changes. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Softness can be a source of connection and intimacy. Men desire to feel seen, heard, and loved. The mind-body connection plays a significant role in sexual health. Normalizing conversations about erectile function can reduce stigma. Intergenerational conversations can provide valuable insights for younger men. Community support is essential for men's mental and emotional well-being. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 05:35 Challenges in Male Communication 13:02 The Vulnerability of Male Sexual Health 22:14 Body Acceptance and Aging in Men 40:23 Intergenerational Conversations and Male Support 48:34 Finding Community and Support Groups 57:23 Embracing Softness and Connection 01:09:09 Closing Thoughts and Resources soft cock, male communication, body acceptance, vulnerability, sexual health, men's groups, aging, intimacy, mental health, community support