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Oct 10, 2026 32 min

The Heartbreak You Keep Choosing

from Becoming the Crown Hosted by Coach Ivy

🎟️ Choose, Don't Chase: Stop Repeating the Heartbreak Live on Zoom · Wednesday, October 28 · 7 PM Eastern $27, and every seat comes with a free plus one. Bring the girlfriend who's dating the same guy with a different name. Save your seat → [event link] IN THIS EPISODE → Red Light Green Light: he texts every day, sends flowers and poetry, but never makes plans to see you in person → Why consistency isn't enough, and what to look for instead: congruency → The three endings: unavailable, incompatible, noncommittal → Why smart women miss the pattern, and why it feels like chemistry → The "no labels" speech, and what I finally understood about my own pattern → The five archetypes running underneath your choices → Why a sovereign woman chooses instead of chasing REFERENCE → The Wedding Date (2005), the source of Nick Mercer's line "Every woman has the exact love life she wants." IF THIS EPISODE RESONATED Send it to the friend who keeps saying "it's not the same thing." Then bring her to the 28th. Her seat's on me. COACH IVY RESOURCES → 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe → 🧭 Go deeper — Schedule your Archetype Breakthrough Session → 🚦 Send your Red Light Green Light scenario to [email protected] — subject line: RLGL → ⭐ Loving the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — I read every one, and yours might be featured on a future episode. CONNECT WITH COACH IVY Instagram: @coachivyvine Facebook: CoachIvy Substack: Better Dating After Divorce Coach Ivy · #SelfEvolutionRevolution · Notice. Name. Choose Differently.

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