EPISODE · May 20, 2026 · 8 MIN
The Hidden Blind Spot Ruining Your Life
from The Mature Male · host Wes Lambert
Most men assume the problem is external. The job, the relationship, the bad luck. What the research keeps pointing back to is something internal that most men have never been asked to look at directly.This video uses the Johari Window framework to map the gap between who you think you are and who you are showing up as, and why that gap is usually at the center of the friction in your life.Expect to learn:-What the Johari Window actually reveals about self-awareness and blind spots-Why high-functioning men are often the most defended against feedback-The specific ways blind spots show up in relationships, work, and self-sabotage-What it means to confuse identity with role and why men lose themselves doing it-How to begin closing the gap between self-perception and how others actually experience you-What self-awareness looks like as a daily practice, not a one-time insightFollow along at..-Website: www.weslambert.me-Email: [email protected]: https://substack.com/@weslambert-Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Yv1ciX90C3zdPxD67kjyY?si=7591bc0f32da4f23-Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mature-male/id1805978833
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Most men assume the problem is external. The job, the relationship, the bad luck. What the research keeps pointing back to is something internal that most men have never been asked to look at directly.This video uses the Johari Window framework to map the gap between who you think you are and who you are showing up as, and why that gap is usually at the center of the friction in your life.Expect to learn:-What the Johari Window actually reveals about self-awareness and blind spots-Why high-functioning men are often the most defended against feedback-The specific ways blind spots show up in relationships, work, and self-sabotage-What it means to confuse identity with role and why men lose themselves doing it-How to begin closing the gap between self-perception and how others actually experience you-What self-awareness looks like as a daily practice, not a one-time insightFollow along at..-Website: www.weslambert.me-Email: [email protected]: https://substack.com/@weslambert-Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Yv1ciX90C3zdPxD67kjyY?si=7591bc0f32da4f23-Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mature-male/id1805978833
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