EPISODE · Jul 13, 2024 · 55 MIN
The Hunter or Husband
from God's Gift Through His Word · host T.Drake
00:00:02.188 --> 00:00:03.128 All right, everyone. 00:00:03.267 --> 00:00:06.190 Welcome to our conversations 00:00:06.250 --> 00:00:08.650 with T. Drake and Pastor Jay. 00:00:09.230 --> 00:00:10.090 And I hope you're going to 00:00:10.111 --> 00:00:11.010 enjoy what we're talking about. 00:00:11.311 --> 00:00:12.272 I have God's Gift Through 00:00:12.291 --> 00:00:14.032 His Word podcast and Pastor 00:00:14.053 --> 00:00:15.032 Jay coming from Walk in 00:00:15.053 --> 00:00:15.973 Truth Radio Network. 00:00:16.513 --> 00:00:17.314 I hope you guys are going to 00:00:17.373 --> 00:00:19.175 enjoy this conversation 00:00:19.535 --> 00:00:20.734 that we're about to jump into, 00:00:20.754 --> 00:00:23.216 The Hunter or Husband. 00:00:23.696 --> 00:00:24.957 So let's go ahead and get started. 00:00:24.996 --> 00:00:25.917 Hey, Pastor Jay. 00:00:25.937 --> 00:00:28.217 Hey, T. How are you doing today? 00:00:28.338 --> 00:00:29.798 How's everybody doing out there? 00:00:29.859 --> 00:00:30.518 Glad to be 00:00:31.454 --> 00:00:32.914 Uh available so we can have 00:00:32.935 --> 00:00:33.735 this discussion because 00:00:33.795 --> 00:00:35.936 it's been on my heart Based 00:00:36.076 --> 00:00:37.018 on the past couple of 00:00:37.057 --> 00:00:38.098 months of dealing with some 00:00:38.158 --> 00:00:40.320 people And I think it's 00:00:40.359 --> 00:00:41.801 very important that we uh, 00:00:41.960 --> 00:00:43.002 try to help people and get 00:00:43.042 --> 00:00:44.722 them to understand There is 00:00:44.762 --> 00:00:45.444 a difference between the 00:00:45.524 --> 00:00:50.347 hunter and the husband so 00:00:51.128 --> 00:00:51.747 Me and you were talking 00:00:51.768 --> 00:00:53.348 about that before we got started. 00:00:53.368 --> 00:00:53.789 So yeah, 00:00:53.829 --> 00:00:59.052 we can just jump right on in Do 00:00:59.073 --> 00:01:00.473 you have any questions for me before I 00:01:01.340 --> 00:01:02.420 going then you can chime 00:01:02.460 --> 00:01:04.302 back in you know I always 00:01:04.362 --> 00:01:06.024 have questions but I'll 00:01:06.043 --> 00:01:07.305 save those as we move 00:01:07.325 --> 00:01:08.385 through our conversation 00:01:09.287 --> 00:01:11.228 okay and and guys pardon me 00:01:11.448 --> 00:01:12.629 uh kind of under the 00:01:12.670 --> 00:01:14.772 weather my sinuses so if I 00:01:14.792 --> 00:01:15.793 sneeze or something just 00:01:15.832 --> 00:01:18.614 pardon me because uh just 00:01:18.655 --> 00:01:19.495 going through the summer 00:01:19.516 --> 00:01:23.840 thing uh but let me give 00:01:23.859 --> 00:01:24.600 you the experiences there's 00:01:24.661 --> 00:01:25.540 a there's there's some 00:01:25.581 --> 00:01:27.602 people that I know some 00:01:27.623 --> 00:01:28.263 people that I love 00:01:29.394 --> 00:01:31.236 some ladies that are dear, 00:01:31.757 --> 00:01:34.980 some couples that are dear to my heart. 00:01:35.000 --> 00:01:36.980 And they're going through a 00:01:37.001 --> 00:01:38.361 situation whereas they're 00:01:38.382 --> 00:01:40.823 trying to weigh out their 00:01:40.924 --> 00:01:42.706 faith versus their future 00:01:44.387 --> 00:01:45.408 or their faith versus their 00:01:45.447 --> 00:01:46.448 peace of mind or faith 00:01:46.489 --> 00:01:47.450 versus their happiness. 00:01:48.090 --> 00:01:50.391 And it should not be a either or. 00:01:51.912 --> 00:01:55.896 And what I'm learning is there's a great, 00:01:56.456 --> 00:01:57.878 awesome level of commitment 00:01:59.275 --> 00:02:00.676 That women have towards 00:02:00.736 --> 00:02:03.397 their vows and towards what 00:02:03.436 --> 00:02:04.358 they understand the word of 00:02:04.418 --> 00:02:06.718 God says about never 00:02:06.778 --> 00:02:08.979 divorcing your husband. 00:02:11.161 --> 00:02:15.883 And I see men who are marginal at best, 00:02:15.923 --> 00:02:17.403 but not really blood bought, 00:02:17.484 --> 00:02:19.585 saved men actually taking 00:02:19.604 --> 00:02:20.985 advantage of these women. 00:02:21.573 --> 00:02:22.812 that they will stay in an 00:02:22.953 --> 00:02:24.033 abusive relationship, 00:02:24.093 --> 00:02:26.633 whether it's physical, financial, social, 00:02:27.234 --> 00:02:27.713 mental, 00:02:28.253 --> 00:02:30.534 and even spiritual to a high 00:02:30.574 --> 00:02:33.475 degree of anxiety or even 00:02:33.515 --> 00:02:34.816 just a continuous feeding 00:02:35.075 --> 00:02:37.015 of gaslighting and things like that, 00:02:37.075 --> 00:02:37.816 verbal abuse. 00:02:38.896 --> 00:02:41.437 And they believe in their 00:02:41.477 --> 00:02:43.598 hearts after being abused 00:02:43.717 --> 00:02:44.457 that they should stay in 00:02:44.497 --> 00:02:45.277 this relationship. 00:02:46.443 --> 00:02:48.243 And I, 00:02:48.804 --> 00:02:51.764 my opinion is that there's many 00:02:51.805 --> 00:02:53.906 different kinds of adultery 00:02:55.126 --> 00:02:58.826 to which a young lady can 00:02:58.967 --> 00:03:01.207 leave her husband. 00:03:02.328 --> 00:03:03.929 And if you're being spiritually abused, 00:03:04.008 --> 00:03:05.889 emotionally abused, socially abused, 00:03:05.949 --> 00:03:08.930 physically abused, and cheated upon, 00:03:08.949 --> 00:03:09.030 okay, 00:03:12.264 --> 00:03:13.406 giving to another what's 00:03:13.466 --> 00:03:15.086 supposed to give to the wife that care, 00:03:15.627 --> 00:03:18.207 that Ephesians to husband, 00:03:18.728 --> 00:03:19.888 where he's supposed to love 00:03:20.248 --> 00:03:21.968 his wife as Christ loved the church. 00:03:22.490 --> 00:03:23.409 And these are the things 00:03:23.449 --> 00:03:25.390 that he's supposed to do, set her apart, 00:03:25.751 --> 00:03:26.431 sanctify her, 00:03:26.531 --> 00:03:30.252 and he is not willing to do so. 00:03:30.272 --> 00:03:31.674 Then at that point, 00:03:31.713 --> 00:03:32.454 I think we go into a 00:03:32.493 --> 00:03:33.514 spiritual adultery that a 00:03:33.675 --> 00:03:38.736 lot of times relates to physical, 00:03:38.796 --> 00:03:41.277 emotional, financial abuse. 00:03:43.078 --> 00:03:45.979 and the question is always 00:03:46.740 --> 00:03:48.060 I'm going to honor my vows 00:03:48.180 --> 00:03:49.420 but now I'm running into 00:03:49.461 --> 00:03:51.602 people who have honored 00:03:51.681 --> 00:03:53.361 this vow to the point of 00:03:53.421 --> 00:03:56.462 insanity 40 50 years of 00:03:56.522 --> 00:04:01.724 marriage and normally what 00:04:01.745 --> 00:04:03.045 I've dealt with is a woman 00:04:04.021 --> 00:04:05.323 is very unhappy. 00:04:05.383 --> 00:04:07.003 The woman now is lashing out. 00:04:07.044 --> 00:04:10.085 The woman now is, is, is them bubbled over, 00:04:10.125 --> 00:04:11.126 is them boiled over. 00:04:11.225 --> 00:04:12.866 And now she's even acting 00:04:13.507 --> 00:04:14.807 contrary to her faith 00:04:14.867 --> 00:04:16.247 because she can't take anymore. 00:04:16.949 --> 00:04:19.670 And then when you hear the story that, uh, 00:04:20.149 --> 00:04:22.031 this has been going on this 00:04:22.110 --> 00:04:23.891 level of abuse and it could be either way, 00:04:23.971 --> 00:04:25.632 male or female back and forth. 00:04:25.812 --> 00:04:26.134 Okay. 00:04:26.173 --> 00:04:26.793 Husband and wife, 00:04:27.747 --> 00:04:28.829 But I hear this more from 00:04:28.848 --> 00:04:30.048 the wise point of view. 00:04:30.470 --> 00:04:31.149 This abuse, 00:04:31.209 --> 00:04:32.271 this level of abuse has been 00:04:32.310 --> 00:04:33.711 going on for decades. 00:04:35.471 --> 00:04:36.153 And now they come to the 00:04:36.173 --> 00:04:37.252 conclusion they can't take anymore. 00:04:38.314 --> 00:04:39.834 So they go from being abused 00:04:39.915 --> 00:04:41.896 to almost being the abuser 00:04:41.975 --> 00:04:42.896 to make up for the lost 00:04:42.956 --> 00:04:44.617 time of peace and tranquility. 00:04:46.197 --> 00:04:48.379 And I think the church needs 00:04:48.399 --> 00:04:51.641 to address this because too 00:04:51.661 --> 00:04:52.521 many women are sitting in 00:04:52.541 --> 00:04:54.423 the pews and their heart is broken. 00:04:54.742 --> 00:04:55.803 Their spirit is broken. 00:04:56.569 --> 00:05:01.552 They feel less than, and they're married. 00:05:01.833 --> 00:05:02.553 There has not been any 00:05:02.613 --> 00:05:03.675 transgression of the church 00:05:03.714 --> 00:05:05.675 against their male counterpart, 00:05:06.315 --> 00:05:07.797 but they don't even feel loved anymore. 00:05:08.218 --> 00:05:09.278 They don't even feel cared for. 00:05:09.778 --> 00:05:11.680 But there was a time when 00:05:11.720 --> 00:05:13.420 his husband was a hunter, 00:05:13.920 --> 00:05:15.041 and that's what I want to get into. 00:05:17.023 --> 00:05:19.605 There are guys out here who are hunters, 00:05:20.646 --> 00:05:21.927 just like a natural hunter. 00:05:23.548 --> 00:05:25.329 The thrill is in the journey to hunt. 00:05:26.137 --> 00:05:27.759 in the elusiveness of the 00:05:27.839 --> 00:05:30.541 prey the one who can't be 00:05:30.601 --> 00:05:31.963 captured the one who can't 00:05:32.004 --> 00:05:34.605 be tamed it's like the 00:05:34.625 --> 00:05:35.607 story the taming of the 00:05:35.666 --> 00:05:38.870 shrew the allure was this 00:05:38.990 --> 00:05:40.891 woman this red-headed woman 00:05:41.391 --> 00:05:43.274 was beyond any man's 00:05:43.514 --> 00:05:46.357 ability to control her well 00:05:46.716 --> 00:05:47.959 a lot of men that's what 00:05:47.999 --> 00:05:49.259 they do they're hunters 00:05:50.442 --> 00:05:51.923 and while they're hunting 00:05:52.163 --> 00:05:53.324 they'll do anything that 00:05:53.363 --> 00:05:54.324 needs to be done they'll 00:05:54.345 --> 00:05:55.266 show you a good time 00:05:55.725 --> 00:05:56.526 they'll show you love and 00:05:56.547 --> 00:05:57.526</p
Embed this episode
NOW PLAYING
The Hunter or Husband
No transcript for this episode yet
Similar Episodes
No similar episodes found.
Similar Podcasts
No similar podcasts found.