The Inner State That Makes Real Love Possible [EP 227]

There is a psychological key that shapes your future in love, and it’s called your self-state.In this episode of the Deeper Dating Podcast, I’ll help you discover the self-states you’re living from — and how to shift into one that leads you to deep love, self-honoring, and grounded hope. Listen For::00 What is a self-state and how does it shape our relationships?4:08 What is the “gift zone” and why is it key to deeper intimacy?7:40 What happens when we’re dating from a diminished self-state?12:32 How does our self-state affect our sex life and boundaries?23:11 How can we use visualization to shift out of self-doubt? SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON APPLE PODCASTS Leave a positive rating for this podcast with one click CONNECT WITH KEN:Website | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | XStop repeating old patterns and learn the deeper skills of real intimacy in a small, handpicked six-month group led personally by psychotherapist Ken Page. Book a free private session at DeeperDatingIntensive.com.https:deeperforgood.com

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