The Jealousy and Monogamy Episode

No matter what your current relationship structure-of-choice is, conflict and communication around trust and jealousy can be challenging. I asked one of my favorite therapists Yana Tallon-Hicks to offer advice from her new book, Hot and Un-bothered.2:00 meet your guest6:00 parenting is “the kid project”9:00 non/monogamy isn’t so different regarding conflict13:00 is my jealousy rooted in reality, or my past?16:00 on feeling tricked20:00 “explicit permission”23:00 lie-inviting behavior27:00 “name it to tame it”31:00 authentic, honest responses w/o punishment34:00 making yourself busy is a flight response 36:00 professional jealousy39:00 if they are violent, GTFO42:00 how to awkwardly flirt45:00 trust is experience built over time50:00 book recommendations56:00 talk about sex when you’re not nakedFIND YOUR GUEST: YanaTallonHicks.comFIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.comSee Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsSponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.comCondoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order!Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEXLooking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)