The Kinks Couple's Secretly Want & How to Actually Try Them

Send us Fan MailEvery couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with your partner without it landing weird or killing the mood.In this episode:The three pillars of couple's play — and what each one really gives youThe difference between a kink and a fetishWhy the person in charge and the person letting go are both after the same thing: trustSimple, low-pressure ways to start tonight — using nothing but your own bodyThe exact words to introduce something new (and what to do if you get shut down)🔗 Find Deborah: https://www.deborahkat.com/ | Better Sex podcast | @deborahtantrakatDeb's Free Gift! https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab-opt🎙️ Connect with Me✨ Website: https://talksexwithannette.com📰 Substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.comSubscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped.Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannetteSubscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% OffANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Until September 14 you can stack my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off on top of Lovehoney's 70% off sale for up to 85% offUse code ANNETTE15 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15!Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizerSupport the showWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials:TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.comCheers!