The Layers of Healing: Forgiveness, Patterns and the Courage to Shift

Episode SummaryIn this deeply personal episode, Terry explores the interconnected web of childhood trauma, abusive relationships, and the life-altering experience of abortion. She shares her own journey of moving from a state of self-abandonment and "external validation" to a place of peace, internal authority, and radical self-love. If you have ever felt trapped by the stories your mind tells you—that you aren't worthy or lovable—this episode is an invitation to be still, listen to your heart, and begin the walk toward the "other side" of your pain.Key TakeawaysThe Ripple Effect of Trauma: How childhood loss and disrupted bonding can create a pattern of seeking love in abusive or misaligned relationships.The "Two People" Phenomenon: Reflecting on how the experience of abortion changes a person fundamentally and the importance of acknowledging that shift.Mind vs. Heart: Understanding that the mind tells stories rooted in fear and status quo, while the heart and gut hold your actual truth.The Power of Stillness: Why we must stop the "struggle" to escape our pain and instead choose to be still to hear what our intuition is saying.Invitation-Based Healing: A reminder that healing cannot be pushed or rushed; it happens in layers and requires curiosity rather than force.Notable Quotes"I would never have had that abortion had I known what I know now... if I could wave a wand, I would want to show you what is on the other side.""We hold ourselves in a place of almost like bondage... You're in the middle of this fist. I was in the middle of that fist. But there came a point where I had to be still.""Fear is a story my mind is telling me. The mind wants things to stay as they are... but can you allow yourself to be curious about what’s on the other side?"Connect with TerryAre you ready to explore the foundational steps of your healing path? I invite you to a private space where we can talk, move through the weight you've been carrying, and give you the tools to reclaim your joy.Work with Me: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365&appointmentType=88572819 Email: [email protected]:  www.facebook.com/TerryPershonInstagram:  www.instagram.com/Terrypershon