The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To F**k Boys & Why You Should "Have A 'Boring' Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury

Are we our own worst enemies when it comes to romance? What if instead, we dated like a scientist, using equations and analysis, rather than feelings and attraction to find love.In this new episode Steven sits down with dating coach and behavioural scientist, Logan Ury.Logan is a behavioural expert, dating coach and Director of Relationship Science at the dating app, Hinge. She is also the author of the book, ‘How To Not Die Alone’, which outlines the scientific theories she uses with her clients to help them find love.In this conversation Logan and Steven discuss topics, such as:Why Logan is a dating coach and her work with HingeHow she helps people get out of their own way and find their dating blindspotsThe ways that modern dating is very new for historyResearching the dating habits of Gen ZHiring a dating coach for herselfHow Logan found her husband at workAttachment theory and its importance for datingHow you can change your attachment styleThe negativity bias and how our brain runs on ancient softwareWhy you should go for a securely attached person who may seem boringThe reasons that securely attached people are the heroes of the dating worldWhy people are so addicted to f**k boysThe importance of taking a break during a fightUnderstanding our dating patterns and how we can change themThe secretary problem and the maths of when to stop looking and choose someoneDigital Body Language and how it impacts datingWhy people confuse ‘ick’s’ for dealbreakersWhy you should overcome your ‘ick’s’The 3 most common dating tendencies and unrealistic expectationsWhy the dating environment is so importantHow to date like a scientistWhy you shouldn't try to be perfect on a dateVulnerability as a magnet for connectionThe post date 8 checklistWhy you should ignore the spark and focus on the slow burnWhat things matter less than people think for relationships and what do they underestimateWhy you need to be able to fight well in a relationshipThe tips and tricks to a dating profilewhy vulnerability is strengthThe difference between a maximiser and a satisfierLogan’s husbands cancerLiving on a communeYou can find out which of the 3 dating tendencies you are with Logan’s quiz, here: https://bit.ly/491O3ljYou can purchase Logan’s book, ‘How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love’, here: https://amzn.to/476uvdVFollow Logan:Instagram: https://bit.ly/3SddZULTwitter: https://bit.ly/46IWMqVFollow me:https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceoLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theexperienceplus.substack.com