The Love You Think You Want vs. The Love You Actually Need

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, it’s easy to get caught up in the fantasy of love - the chemistry, the spark, the butterflies, the grand gestures.But what if the love you think you want… isn’t the love you actually need?In this episode of In Session with Clarinda, we explore the difference between intensity and intimacy, chemistry and compatibility, and why so many of us chase what feels familiar instead of what feels safe.We’ll talk about attachment patterns, nervous system responses in relationships, and how to recognize whether you’re drawn to passion - or peace.Because real love isn’t just about being chosen.It’s about feeling safe enough to stay.If you’ve ever questioned your patterns in dating or wondered why “good” can sometimes feel boring - this episode is for you.