The Male Self Esteem Epidemic - Why Are Some Men Immune To Adversity?

Why are some men immune to getting low self-esteem, when so many others are struggling to feel like there's any hope for them in the dating world? It's harder for men now than any other time in history to find a partner, and yet some men overcome their adversity and still find success, while most struggle and feel helpless to change their situation. Martin Seligman, wrote about a condition known as learned helplessness in his famous book "learned optimism" - which not only explains how us guys became so frustrated and depressed about women and dating in general, but it clearly outlines ways to become more confident with women.