The Messy Middle: How to Cope When Life Is on Hold and Nothing Is Certain

What happens when you've made the decision, done the work, and the relief just... doesn't come?In this solo episode, Eileen gets honest about where she's at: her house is listed but unsold, her plans are on hold, and she's been sitting in a prolonged stretch of uncertainty that has quietly taken a toll on her creativity, her energy, and her ability to show up the way she usually does. Rather than pretending it's fine, she's naming it and offering a reframe that might be exactly what you need if you're in your own version of the messy middle right now.Drawing on her years of experience as a midwife, Eileen shares a birth metaphor that captures the particular difficulty of this limbo state, and gently but honestly explores what it means to give yourself grace when your nervous system is under a stress you've been telling yourself isn't a big deal.In this episode:The Wild Roses Women's Festival and what a thousand women considering each other looks like in practiceWhat matriarchy actually means and what it isn'tThe "epidural metaphor": why making a decision and not getting the relief on your desired timeline is its own specific kind of hardWhy our brains will always choose the known hell over the unknown heavenHow prolonged uncertainty impacts the nervous system, creativity, and daily capacity, even when you tell yourself it shouldn'tThe difference between spiritual bypassing and genuinely trusting the process while also acknowledging that something is hardThe shift from "I have to" to "I get to" and why it isn't toxic positivity when you do it honestlyPermission to have reduced capacity and to stop beating yourself up for it"Certainty is a myth, but really not being able to make a plan impacts all of the parts of your life, even if you try to tell yourself it's not a big deal."Join me for the next Wheel of the Year CeremonySubscribe to Eileen on SubstackTake the Which Witch Are You QuizOrder Awaken to the Magic Within Connect with Eileen on Instagram Follow Eileen on Insight Timer Send Eileen an email