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EPISODE · Apr 16, 2025 · 4 MIN

The Most Dangerous Lie You’re Telling Yourself

from Permission to be Powerful Podcast · host Tony V.

Dear Permission to be Powerful Reader,You’re telling yourself a lie right now.One so convincing…So deeply embedded in your mind…You don’t even question it.This lie is the reason you’re stuck.👉 It’s why you procrastinate.👉 It’s why you settle for less.👉 It’s why you keep watching others succeed while you stay exactly where you are.So what’s the lie?“I have to be ready first.”Not yet.Not today.Not until you feel sure.But here’s the brutal truth:You will NEVER feel ready.👉 Ready is a myth.👉 Ready is fear in disguise.👉 Ready is the excuse that keeps you stuck year after year.And every day you wait?👉 You’re training yourself to hesitate.👉 You’re teaching your brain that fear wins.👉 You’re strengthening the habit of staying exactly where you are.And if you don’t break that habit now?It’ll own you for life.Most people think they’re waiting for the “right moment.”What are they actually doing?👉 Stalling.👉 Avoiding discomfort.👉 Giving in to fear.They convince themselves:👉 “I just need more confidence.”👉 “I just need more information.”👉 “I just need to plan a little more.”No. You don’t.Because confidence doesn’t come first.Action does.The Truth No One Tells You👉 The people who win? They move anyway.👉 They start before they feel ready.👉 They take the leap while they’re still scared.👉 They build the wings on the way down.That’s how real progress happens.You act first.THEN you figure it out.Because clarity comes from movement.Confidence comes from repetition.And momentum?That only comes from starting.If you wait until you feel ready… you’ll be waiting forever.The Escape Plan: How to Break the Readiness IllusionMost people don’t change because they don’t know where to start.So here’s where you start:Step 1: Take One Uncomfortable Action—Today.Not tomorrow. Not next week. Today.👉 Apply for the job.👉 Send the message.👉 Launch the damn thing.It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be done.Step 2: Rewire Your Identity.👉 Stop telling yourself you’re “not ready.”Instead, say: “I move first, figure it out later.”Because that’s what successful people do.Step 3: Burn the Escape Routes.👉 No more waiting.👉 No more hesitation.👉 No more playing small.This is the moment you commit.You Know What to Do… Now Do It.This isn’t about motivation.It’s about a decision.👉 You can keep telling yourself the lie. Keep waiting. Keep watching others pass you by.Or…👉 You can make one bold move today—and start breaking free.Because the truth?You don’t need more time.You don’t need more confidence.You don’t need to be “ready.”You need to MOVE.Right now.Go.Until next time,AntonDancer, Writer, Buddhist.P.S.: I got together with some author friends and decided to give away our books for free. That’s right. You can get my new memoir, Hell & Paradise, and over 20 other nonfiction titles for free. 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A must-read if you’re crafting powerful narratives.🧩 Nostalgic & WholesomeMy Old Memory Pieces: 1950s Golden Age Everyday LifeA cozy, slow-sipping cup of tea in book form. Takes you back to a time when life felt simpler (at least on the surface).🍵 For The Self Help JunkieSelf-Care Isn’t Selfish by Jenny Lytle, BSN, RNThe compassionate nurse's step-by-step guide to personalized stress relief.🧘For The Spiritually MindedHow to Attain Eternal Peace by Pranay SahaMastery over the self, transcend illusions of mind, connect with universal consciousness, and achieve deep inner peacePermission to be Powerful is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.antonvolney.com/subscribe

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