The Most Vulnerable Conversations You’ll Ever Have, with Sexologist Natassia Miller

We were taught how to succeed in college, our careers, and promotions along the way. We were never taught how to build and succeed in our intimate relationships.In this episode of Creative Got Me, Monique sits down with sexologist and Wonderlust founder Natassia Miller to talk about the conversations most of us avoid: sex, desire, intimacy, and how all of that quietly shapes our work, leadership, and creativity.Natassia shares how she went from a buttoned-up finance career to becoming a sexologist who speaks openly about women’s pleasure, long-term desire, and the realities of modern relationships. She explains why the most vulnerable conversation you’ll ever have is about sex, and how learning to be honest in the bedroom can transform the way you communicate in the boardroom.They dig into the mental load women carry, why so many “successful” people feel disconnected at home, and how Natassia designed her Wonderlust intimacy card deck after realizing that the biggest barrier to better sex isn’t technique—it’s being able to talk about it at all.You’ll also hear about:• What Natassia’s mom did right with early sex education• Why our sex ed was “salmonella prevention,” not pleasure education• How to think about intimacy like a founder: goals, structure, and tiny experiments• The “cringe mountain” every creator has to climb to find their real voice• A dead-simple date-night framework to bring curiosity back into long-term relationships• Why so many women don’t “want sex” as much as they want less pressure and more helpThis episode isn’t raunchy or clinical.It’s honest, grounded, and surprisingly practical.If you’re a founder, creator, or leader who wants deeper relationships and better communication at work, this one will stick with you.