The Myth of Being "Him" Even the Experts WON'T Tell You...

Season 9 opens with a bold solo episode that calls men to confront one question: Are you becoming the man you're projecting—or are you still wishing for the change you refuse to pursue? In Track 1 of "As a Man Vol 2" titled “As a Man, You’re Not Him (Yet),” Izzy Baker delivers an unfiltered message on what it means to be stuck in potential, performative masculinity, and the cultural obsession with being “Him.” Drawing inspiration from Deuteronomy 2:3 and cultural icons like Kendrick Lamar and LeBron, Izzy challenges listeners to stop circling the same emotional mountains and step into maturity, responsibility, and identity.Izzy explores why so many men are obsessed with calling themselves “Him.” He explains how we’ve confused going viral for having value, comparing Zeus Network drama kings to Oscar winners, grown folks who pretend they don't want to celebrate their birthday for attention, and plenty of homemade quotes; this episode isn't one to miss.He also calls out a growing mental health issue: men stuck in performance mode. When you avoid real growth, you end up faking confidence, chasing validation, and acting out. Izzy unpacks the man-child mindset using real research, expert YouTube videos, and real-life examples. If you’re always blaming others, still leaning on your parents, or blowing up over small things, this might hit close to home. Featured RecognitionThis episode is proudly featured on several Feedspot-curated podcast lists highlighting top voices in wellness and education. PSA: The Mental Health Podcast has been recognized as one of the leading platforms in:Black Mental Health PodcastsEducational Comedy PodcastsMillennial Mental Health PodcastsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/p-s-a-the-mental-health-podcast--5520511/support.TrustBuilder Package🎯 Level up your professional development influence with the TrustBuilder Package — a social media strategy designed to position you as a thought leader in your space. From authority-building content to engagement that actually converts, we make sure your message doesn’t just get seen… it gets respected. Perfect for personal brands looking to grow their presence and impact. Legacy Launchpad🚀 Build your podcast — and your influence — from the ground up with the Legacy Launchpad. We handle everything: strategy, branding, production, and promotion, so you can focus on delivering value. Designed for personal and professional development influencers who want their voice amplified, their brand elevated, and their legacy secured in the digital space.