The Narcissist’s Self Hate

Narcissistic abusers, contrary to what appears, have a deep self hate. When a person has a narcissistic injury, an injury to the self in early childhood, they will feel humiliated, weak, shamed, and often times, as a result, will become hateful. This the will manifest its way towards others in narcissistic abuse but in reality it is offloading the very deep sense of hate within. Victims of this form of abuse, in an attempt to please the abuser, will become dumpsters for the extremely negative feelings thinking “if I just take on all their crap things will be ok”. The truth is, no self respecting person would narcissistically abuse others in any way. Only a self hating and self loathing person would do things that can emotionally destroy others.