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EPISODE · May 12, 2026 · 40 MIN

The Need For Approval: Part 2

from Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre · host Hilary & Les

Ask us a Question or Leave a Comment!We start with a simple nature observation and end up at a big human problem: approval-seeking turns self-worth into an outside verdict and reshapes our relationships into bargains. We unpack why belonging and survival fears make validation feel necessary, then point back to a steadier truth that lets us grow without judgment. • birds and trees as a mirror for self-acceptance • approval-seeking as a deeply learned habit that drives behavior • the belief that worth is external and why it feels existential • how marketplace thinking turns survival into something you must earn • approval as power and a tool for controlling group behavior • three myths about worth and why they are backwards • belonging as a survival need that gets twisted into “am I good enough” • moving through groups as we evolve rather than clinging for safety • how you see yourself shaping how you judge others • compassion as the alternative to condemnation and constant evaluation Can you drop a thumbs up in the chat if you can hear us? Support the showWe  hope this helps a little as you go through your day.We would love to hear your feedback or questions.We will respond to both in future episodes.  Check us out at www.somhypnosis.comJoin our online Community! https://www.skool.com/infinite-mind-school/aboutEmail us [email protected] your own podcast with Buzzsprout!https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1810507Support Coffee With Hilary & Leshttps://www.buzzsprout.com/1829917/support

Ask us a Question or Leave a Comment! We start with a simple nature observation and end up at a big human problem: approval-seeking turns self-worth into an outside verdict and reshapes our relationships into bargains. We unpack why belonging and survival fears make validation feel necessary, then point back to a steadier truth that lets us grow without judgment. • birds and trees as a mirror for self-acceptance • approval-seeking as a deeply learned habit that drives behavior&nbs...

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