EPISODE · Jul 18, 2023 · 2H 2M
The Normalization of Abusing Men
from Olay & Friends · host Olayemi Olurin
Moriah Mills is harassing Zion Williamson, YK Osiris sexually assaulted Sukihana, Sukihana sexually assaulted a little boy, Ja Morant was suspended... we ended up having a really nuanced discussion about gender roles, rape culture, misogyny, dehumanizing Black men and boys, respectability politics, and a lot more. 0:00 Intro 0:45 Moriah Mills & Zion Williamson 14:05 Reaction To Male Vs Female Harassment 23:06 Does Social Media Incentivize This Behavior? 26:57 Moriah Is Blackmailing Zion 30:23 The Importance Of Community 31:20 Continued Social Media Discussion 33:55 Sukihana 36:52 Justification Of "Male" Behavior In "Artists" 44:43 There Is Not Enough Consent 51:06 Women's Autonomy is Being Defined By Men 56:15 Trying To Communicate With "Women Haters" 1:01:35 How We Treat Men/Boys In Distress 1:05:00 Educating Men About Consent 1:08:50 Teaching Boys To Have Boundaries 1:12:58 Internalized Misogyny 1:16:18 R*pe Culture Is More Common Than You Think 1:22:06 The Myth That Boys Can't Be Assaulted 1:25:54 Boys Are Not Raised To Express Emotion 1:27:37 Better Sexual Education Is Needed 1:32:11 Continued Boys & Emotions Discussion 1:36:35 Fame & Success Do Not Replace Emotional Guidance 1:40:06 Ja Morant "Multiple Things Can Be True" 1:47:45 Respectability Politics & Policing Blackness 1:55:22 Blackness Should Not Have To Be Explained Marc Lamont Hill: Twitter: https://twitter.com/marclamonthill Cindy Noir: Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir Marlon Palmer: Twitter: https://twitter.com/ThatDudeMCFLY Youtube: @ThatdudeMCFLY Nia Jael: Twitter: https://twitter.com/niajael JaShawn Combs: Twitter: https://twitter.com/Shawnjay92 Follow Olay on twitter: https://twitter.com/msolurin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msolurin/ Olay's Website: https://www.olayemiolurin.com/ Subscribe to Olurintatti on Sub Stack: https://olurinatti.substack.com/ Edited By: https://twitter.com/Sherlock0ats
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