The One About Identity: Why Are You So Disciplined... At The Wrong Things?

A lot of men know what they're supposed to be. The problem is they never asked whether they actually wanted it.In Episode 3, James and Johnny dig into the question that sits underneath everything else in this series: how do you become the man you actually want to be, not the version that got assembled from everyone else's expectations?They get into how the things you judge in other people are a direct window into your own insecurities. Why chasing the right outcomes can still leave you feeling completely empty. How confidence isn't a performance, it's the reputation you quietly build with yourself. And why knowing where you want to go is useless until you're honest about where you actually are right now.Real stories. No scripts. Two blokes working it out live, and giving you the space to do the same.Take the free self-assessment → https://www.menbehavinghonestly.com/free-self-assessment-checkJohnny Lawrence is a behavioural change expert, featured on BBC, The Telegraph, and the NHS.James Shireby is a qualified coach and counsellor based in Tunbridge Wells.Men Behaving Honestly: the conversations most men are having in their heads. Now said out loud. For men, and for the people who love them.Website: https://www.menbehavinghonestly.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3HWNkMdhfsOVPpdvLCsnbGApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/men-behaving-honestly-podcast/id1896707228September Workshop — in-person, limited places:https://www.menbehavinghonestly.com/workshop-september