The Pain of Anger with Shane Becton

Send us Fan MailIn this final episode of season 1 of the Care for Pastors Podcast, Pastor Shane Becton shares the raw and redemptive journey of confronting unresolved anger after a season of ministry betrayal, leadership crisis, and personal loss. Shane opens up about the emotional toll of online accusations, sudden resignations within his church leadership, and the spiritual fog that followed.When everything he had poured his life into began to unravel, Shane found himself consumed by hurt and confusion. But in his most broken moment, a quiet nudge from his wife led him to reach out to Care for Pastors, and that phone call marked the beginning of healing.In this honest conversation, Shane reflects on:How anger can mask grief, fear, and disillusionmentThe challenges of leadership in crisis and isolationThe role of wise counsel and mentorship in recoveryWhy processing pain is essential for personal and spiritual healthHow writing letters and pursuing Matthew 18-style reconciliation brought freedomWhat it means to rebuild life and ministry with surrender, not controlResources mentioned on the episode:Care for PastorsIf this episode spoke to you or someone you love, please share it with others in ministry who may be struggling. Subscribe to the Care for Pastors Podcast so you never miss an episode and leave a review to help others find support.About our Guest:Shane Becton is a seasoned ministry leader with over 25 years of experience in church leadership. He has faithfully served in various roles, including Family Ministries Pastor, Campus Pastor, and Executive Pastor, and now serves as the Lead Pastor of a growing church community, New Life Seacoast Church in New Hampshire. In 2019, Shane and his wife, Holly, relocated from the coast of North Carolina to New Hampshire, where they’ve continued to share the transforming message of Jesus and build meaningful relationships in their local community.