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EPISODE · Jan 26, 2026 · 42 MIN

The paradoxes of a GODLY MAN // Relationships (part 2) // Pastor Drew

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💯 "Become the type of man that the type of woman of God that you want to raise your kids is looking for." In this sermon, titled "The Paradoxes of a Godly Man," Pastor Drew of Collective Church Omaha explores the dual nature of Christian manhood within the context of relationships. He emphasizes that a godly man must balance seemingly contradictory traits to lead effectively and love well. The message focuses on the "oobleck" nature of a godly man—being both solid and fluid at the same time. Pastor Drew identifies four key "paradoxes" that define this balance: 1️⃣ Lover and a Fighter: A man should cultivate gentleness and righteousness (a lover) while remaining a spiritual warrior for his family and faith (a fighter). 2️⃣ Loving Servant and a Solid Leader: True leadership is modeled after Jesus, who led by serving others and washing feet. It requires humility and lifting up one's spouse and family rather than ruling with an iron fist. 3️⃣ Gracious and Just: A man must be able to offer undeserved favor and mercy while also standing firm on what is right and providing necessary correction and protection. 4️⃣ Courageously Resolute and Vulnerably Connected: While a man must be a courageous protector who faces fear, he must also know how to let down his guard to be emotionally available and connected to God and his family. ------------------------------------ 📖 Scripture References: 1 Timothy 6: 11 - 14 : https://www.bible.com/bible/111/1TI.6.11-14 Psalm 112 : https://www.bible.com/bible/111/PSA.112 Ephesians 5: 25 - 28 : https://www.bible.com/bible/111/EPH.5.25-28 ------------------------------------ [00:00] Relationship Series Intro [05:41] The Paradoxes of a Godly Man [10:40] The Oobleck Illustration [19:54] Paradox 1: Lover & Fighter [25:58] Paradox 2: Servant & Leader [28:02] Paradox 3: Gracious & Just [29:59] Paradox 4: Resolute & Vulnerable [36:13] Summary of Paradoxes [39:32] Final Prayer ------------------------------------ For any information, how to connect, and/or prayer requests: https://form.church/youcollectiveomaha We'd love to hear from you! Connect with us on: - Website: https://www.collectiveomaha.com - Facebook: https://facebook.com/collectiveomaha - Instagram: @collectiveomaha - Email: [email protected] - Youtube: https://youtube.com/collectiveomaha - Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4M9KbSOFHBViC4UTzsOvIK?si=fdb9dd2cf24c46f0 - Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collective-church-omaha/id1792027778

💯 "Become the type of man that the type of woman of God that you want to raise your kids is looking for."In this sermon, titled "The Paradoxes of a Godly Man," Pastor Drew of Collective Church Omaha explores the dual nature of Christian manhood within the context of relationships. He emphasizes that a godly man must balance seemingly contradictory traits to lead effectively and love well.The message focuses on the "oobleck" nature of a godly man—being both solid and fluid at the same time. Pastor Drew identifies four key "paradoxes" that define this balance:1️⃣ Lover and a Fighter: A man should cultivate gentleness and righteousness (a lover) while remaining a spiritual warrior for his family and faith (a fighter).2️⃣ Loving Servant and a Solid Leader: True leadership is modeled after Jesus, who led by serving others and washing feet. It requires humility and lifting up one's spouse and family rather than ruling with an iron fist.3️⃣ Gracious and Just: A man must be able to offer undeserved favor and mercy while also standing firm on what is right and providing necessary correction and protection.4️⃣ Courageously Resolute and Vulnerably Connected: While a man must be a courageous protector who faces fear, he must also know how to let down his guard to be emotionally available and connected to God and his family.------------------------------------📖 Scripture References:1 Timothy 6: 11 - 14 : https://www.bible.com/bible/111/1TI.6.11-14Psalm 112 : https://www.bible.com/bible/111/PSA.112Ephesians 5: 25 - 28 : https://www.bible.com/bible/111/EPH.5.25-28------------------------------------[00:00] Relationship Series Intro[05:41] The Paradoxes of a Godly Man[10:40] The Oobleck Illustration[19:54] Paradox 1: Lover & Fighter[25:58] Paradox 2: Servant & Leader[28:02] Paradox 3: Gracious & Just[29:59] Paradox 4: Resolute & Vulnerable[36:13] Summary of Paradoxes[39:32] Final Prayer------------------------------------For any information, how to connect, and/or prayer requests: https://form.church/youcollectiveomahaWe'd love to hear from you! Connect with us on: - Website: https://www.collectiveomaha.com - Facebook: https://facebook.com/collectiveomaha - Instagram: @collectiveomaha - Email: [email protected] - Youtube: https://youtube.com/collectiveomaha - Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4M9KbSOFHBViC4UTzsOvIK?si=fdb9dd2cf24c46f0 - Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collective-church-omaha/id1792027778

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