The Pedestal Problem: Why I Stopped Worshipping Experts and Gurus

In this episode, Martina reflects on a shift that has deeply changed the way she sees authority, expertise, and influence — the pedestal.For years, she unconsciously placed coaches, gurus, and public figures above herself, assuming they knew more, were more evolved, or had access to wisdom she didn’t. But what happens when those pedestals start to collapse?In this conversation, she explores:The psychology behind pedestal culture and why we outsource our powerHow admiration slowly turns into self-abandonmentWhy authority feels safer than self-trustWhat happens when the pedestal fallsHow this realization helped her reclaim discernment and grounded confidenceThis episode isn’t about attacking anyone. It’s about coming back to yourself — learning from others without shrinking, admiring without worshipping, and respecting without surrendering your own authority.If you’ve ever elevated someone only to feel disappointed later, this conversation is for you.Got a thought, reaction, or moment this episode stirred up? Send me a note. I read every message — and sometimes they shape future episodes.Follow Martina on Instagram @femmagical for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more!Subscribe to "I Do Me, Boo" on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode.Love what you heard? Leave a comment or review to let Martina know what resonated with you.Also, share this episode with friends and family who need a reminder about the importance of health and boundaries.Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.