The Perfection Trap with Thomas Curran

Calling all relentless go-getters, ambitious overachievers, and self-proclaimed perfectionists! If you've ever found yourself striving for the unattainable, scrutinizing every detail, and battling your inner critic, then this episode is your compass to navigate the tumultuous seas of perfectionism.In this episode, Dr. Stephanie sits down with Dr. Thomas Curran, a distinguished psychology professor at the London School of Economics and the mastermind behind a trailblazing study heralded by the BBC as the first to unravel perfectionism across generations. Brace yourself for an enlightening conversation as Dr. Curran, the author of "The Perfection Trap," imparts his profound insights to liberate you from the shackles of your own expectations.Watch on YouTube at https://youtu.be/5OomVrOhdmALinks for this episode:Website: https://www.thomascurran.co.ukThe Perfection Trap: Embracing the Power of Good Enough https://amzn.to/3Oxv3BwTedTalk: Our dangerous obsession with perfectionism is getting worse https://www.ted.com/talks/thomas_curran_our_dangerous_obsession_with_perfectionism_is_getting_worse?language=enEasterlin Paradox: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Easterlin_paradoxEpisode Overview:0:00:41 The Culture of Perfectionism and its Impact0:08:16 The Susceptibility and Heritability of Perfectionism0:11:01 Society's celebration of work ethic and perfectionistic ideals0:13:43 The root of society's desire for perfection and the impact on individuals0:19:08 Formation of Perfectionism in Adolescence0:22:29 Perfectionism and Fear of Failure0:28:34 Embracing Being Average in a World of Excessive Achievement0:32:12 The Easterlin Paradox and the Relativity of Happiness0:36:02 The Link Between Economic Growth and Standard of Living0:39:18 Alternative Metrics for Success: Happiness and Well-being0:43:52 Embracing Death: A Cultural Perspective on Happiness0:44:30 Embracing the Light and Shadow Sides of Ourselves0:48:02 Challenging Perfectionism and Showing Vulnerability0:50:35 Acceptance of Self and the Imperfect World0:53:35 The Lie of Perfectionism0:58:31 Moderation in Growth Mindset for a Balanced Life1:00:28 Legal and Medical Disclaimer: General Information OnlyWe'd like to thank our sponsors:Begin your transformation with CAROL Bike today and enjoy $100 off using promo code BETTER at www.carolbike.com ****************************P.S. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you:Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.Build Muscle: LIFT — My progressive strength training program designed for women in midlife. Form-focused, joint-friendly, and built for real results. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.