The Porn Problem? Pleasure, Practice, and What No One Taught Us at School

Is porn "the problem" — or are we using it to fill an education gap? This episode gets radically honest about how on-screen sex bleeds into real bedrooms: camera angles mistaken for technique, pain sold as pleasure, the silent pressure to perform, and why foreplay is rarely shown. We dig into clitoral vs penetrative pleasure, "dick dysmorphia," chasing novelty, and the effect on orgasm, body image and consent — then offer a simple, trauma-informed framework for consent and safe words. A compassionate de-programming for anyone raised on secrecy and sealed-section sex ed.