The Power of Choosing You with Elyse Archer - Episode 11

What if the version of success you’ve been chasing was never actually yours to begin with? That question hit me hard—and it’s exactly where we begin in this deeply personal, powerful episode of the Purpose Finder Podcast. I had the absolute honor of sitting down with Elyse Archer, the incredible coach, speaker, and founder of She Sells, for a conversation that felt more like a soul check than an interview. We talked about what it really means to wake up to your life, peel back the layers of expectation, and ask yourself the brave question: Is this even what I want? Elyse shares her story with such raw grace—especially when opening up about the end of her first marriage. She doesn’t speak from bitterness, but from a place of deep self-awareness. Listening to her describe how that season reflected an inner disconnect really made me reflect on my own life. She said something that stuck with me: “It’s not about the food. It’s not about the job. It’s your soul trying to tell you something.” Whew. That one line alone is worth hitting replay. We talk about how grief, anxiety, or even feeling stuck can actually be divine messages—clues that something in you is ready to heal, shift, or grow. What I loved most about our time together was how Elyse challenged the old story that women have to choose between success and presence. She’s a mom, a wife, a CEO—and yet she’s building her life and business from a place of softness, authenticity, and alignment. It’s not just about what she’s doing—it’s about who she’s becoming while she does it. And I think that’s the heart of this whole episode. If you’ve been hustling for a version of success that doesn’t actually feel like you, this is your permission slip to pause, reassess, and realign. Because the most powerful thing you can build isn’t just a career—it’s a life that feels like home. Timestamps: 00:00 Southern Soul in Snowy Maine 09:34 Transformative Sales Identity Framework 11:33 Authentic Sales and Personal Purpose 19:43 Self-Worth and Wealth Alignment 25:24 Parental Expectations and Self-Discovery 26:27 Purpose Evolves Over Time 31:51 Self-Love and Liberation Journey 39:17 Overcoming Money Limiting Beliefs 45:00 Energy, Self-Belief, and Attraction 48:18 Personal Growth Fuels Business Success 57:19 Balancing Purpose, Family, and Ambition 01:00:41 Quantum Sales Growth Training 01:05:05 Discover Your Purpose #CharisaMunroe #PurposeFinderPodcast #relationships #LiveOnPurpose #FindYourWhy #Lifeafterdivorce #Inspiration #Transformation #Success #desires #Trustyourself #Purpose #PersonalDevelopment #WomenInBusiness #SalesLeadership #Entrepreneurship #SelfWorth #GrowthMindset #LifeLessons  About the Guest Elyse Archer is the founder of the Superhuman Selling and She Sells movements, which empower entrepreneurs and sales professionals to revolutionize how they sell, explode their income and achieve quantum leaps in all areas of life. A Salesforce Top Influencer and a thought leader whose insights have been featured in major media including Forbes and Inc, Elyse is passionate about empowering her clients to sell in a way that leverages their natural gifts, and helps them build wealth along the way. She is an international keynote speaker and host of She Sells Radio, where she shares best practices from female entrepreneurs and sales professionals who have accomplished extraordinary goals. Prior to founding She Sells, Elyse served as a Partner in an 8-figure international sales coaching organization, where she helped sales professionals achieve their goals. Outside of She Sells Elyse is also a founding team member of Brand Builders Group, a personal branding strategy firm. Her client list includes New York Times bestselling authors, top 100 podcast hosts, and 8 figure entrepreneurs, as well as leaders who are earlier in their journey and committed to scaling their influence, impact and income. 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