The Process is the Product feat. Paul Shirley | Ep. 246

What does a former NBA player have to say about hitting your goals, manifesting your dream career and finding purpose and happiness along the way? Find out in this exclusive + powerful conversation!!Paul Shirley played for 17 professional basketball teams in a nine-year career, including stops in Spain, Greece, Russia, and with three teams in the NBA. He's the author of five books, including The Process is the Product which is what inspired this conversation today. Paul is also the founder of The Process, where he helps creatives, entrepreneurs, and independent workers re-learn how to manage distractions and do focused work on meaningful projects.Join Emyrald + Paul as they dive into: how to love the day to day process in pursuit of your goalthe if/then trap (and how to move beyond it) figuring out your why & your values as a way to set your goals why doing MORE than you set out to do is actually a FAILURE the importance of building a system that you can repeat on the daily to hit your long term goals the reason for rituals in creating healthy habits & new ways of being why guilt & shame do NOT work in the long run for hitting your goals the more you try to control your life, the unhappier you will be and why happiness is NOT the correct pursuit Connect with Paul  https://www.theprocessdenver.comhttps://a.co/d/3Q54onw Grab your own copy of The Process is The ProductConnect with Emyrald Join her FB communityFollow Emyrald on Instagram https://emyraldsinclaire.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/emyrald-dallas-dating--3487965/support.Thanks for listening to Emyrald Dallas Dating — the podcast bridging the gap between men and women in modern dating. If this episode resonated, be sure to subscribe, rate, and leave a review. It helps more people find conversations that lead to more successful dating and lasting love.Want to experience this work live? Join us for Online Dating Encounters, a live virtual experience with coaching and personalized support to help you navigate modern dating with clarity and confidence:🗓 Held the last Thursday of every month🌍 Join from anywhere in the world🔗 Register at emyralddallasdating.com