The Productivity Lie That's Breaking Moms

In this episode, host Madge chats with Elmarie Dercksen, a pastor, author, musician, and mom of three, about the pressure working moms face to stay busy and “hustle” all the time. They unpack how this constant grind affects mental health, relationships, and family life. Elmarie shares heartfelt insights on slowing down, embracing imperfections and creating space for genuine rest and presence. This episode is a gentle reminder to shift the conversation from nonstop productivity to meaningful connections and peace.Timestamps00:03 — The Need to Prove Worth00:05 — Impact of Hustle Culture00:08 — Accepting Help & Overcoming Perfectionism00:09 — Choosing Harmony Over Perfection00:11 — Reimagining Rest in Daily Life00:19 — The Importance of Presence00:23 — Seasonal Reflection & Rest00:24 — Teaching Kids to Embrace Boredom00:25 — Changing the Conversation About Busyness00:26 — Breathing and Mindfulness00:29 — A Pact for Meaningful Connections00:29 — Compassion and Understanding00:31 — The Final Five Questions00:32 — Support & Expectations in Parenting00:34 — Choice in ParenthoodEncouraging children to decide their family journey.00:36 — Consistency & Joy in ParentingFollow The MOMents Podcast:Instagram:   https://www.instagram.com/moments_omnimedia/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572218987263&locale=mt_MT# LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/company/moments-omnimedia Website: https://www.momentsmedia.co.za/#WorkingMomBurnout #HustleCulture #SlowMotherhood #MomLifeBalance #RestNotRush