The Psychology of Being “Right” with Jeramy Gordon

In this episode of Vestiges After Dark, we’re joined by author and entrepreneur Jeramy Gordon to explore the psychology behind our powerful need to be “right.” Drawing from his book Opinionated, Not Judgmental, Jeramy examines why disagreements so often turn into personal battles and why many people instinctively prioritize winning arguments over seeking truth. The conversation looks at how ego, identity, and group loyalty shape the way we defend our beliefs—particularly in an age of social media, viral outrage, and constant public debate. We explore why online conversations escalate so quickly, how belief systems become intertwined with personal identity, and why disagreement is often interpreted as a personal attack. Jeramy introduces an important distinction between conviction and condemnation, arguing that it’s possible to hold strong beliefs without losing humility or respect for others. Through his experiences in journalism, entrepreneurship, and his own spiritual journey, he offers thoughtful insight into how meaningful conversations about truth can still happen—even in a culture increasingly defined by polarization.To call into the show with your questions, comments, or stories, dial: (207) 544-1983.Music Credits (for full list click here: https://esotericcatholic.org/vestiges...) Inukshuk - Too Far Gone [NCS Release] Crowd Hammer Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b... Bumper Music: NoCopyrightSounds Marin Hoxha & Chris Linton - With You [NCS Release] Tobu & Syndec - Dusk [NCS Release] Codeko - Crest [NCS Release] Syn Cole - Feel Good [NCS Release] Floatinurboat - Limbo (feat. ELIØTT) [NCS Release] Going Back Home (Vestiges After Dark Cover) by Bishop Bryan Ouellette, SOSM Guiding My Way (Vestiges After Dark, Epic Choir, Extreme Cover) by Bishop Bryan Ouellette, SOSM We Say Goodbye (Vestiges After Dark Cover) by Bishop Bryan Ouellette, SOSM Before the Dark by Bishop Bryan Ouellette, SOSM The Last Door by Bishop Bryan Ouellette, SOSM Back to the Willow Tree by Bishop Bryan Ouellette, SOSM • Mendum & Abandoned - Voyage (Feat. DN... Song: Unknown Brain & Hoober - Phenomenon (ft. Dax & VinDon) [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/Phenomenon Watch: • Unknown Brain & Hoober - Phenomenon (... Song: Robin Hustin & Jessica Chertock - Burn it Down [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/BurnItDown Watch: • Robin Hustin & Jessica Chertock - Bur... Song: Kozah - Nobody [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://NCS.io/Nobody Watch: • Kozah - Nobody [NCS Release] Song: NIVIRO - Demons [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/NDemons Watch: • NIVIRO - Demons | Electronic | NCS - ... Song: Unknown Brain - Childhood Dreams [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/ChildHoodDreams Watch: • Unknown Brain - Faceless (Album MIX) ... Song: Syn Cole - Time [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/Time Watch: • Syn Cole - Time [NCS Release] Song: Jim Yosef - Fall With Me [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/FallWithMe Watch: • Unknown Brain - Waiting (feat. Lox Ch... Song: Mike Vallas, Jagsy & quaggin. - Left My Heart In Pain [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/LMHIP Watch: • Mike Vallas, Jagsy & quaggin. - Left ... Song: Barren Gates - Devil [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/Devil Watch: • Barren Gates - Devil | Trap | NCS - C... Song: Inukshuk - The Long Road Home [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/TLRH Watch: • Inukshuk - The Long Road Home [NCS Re... Song: Inukshuk - Too Far Gone [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/TooFarGone Watch: • Inukshuk - Too Far Gone [NCS Release] Song: Inukshuk - A World Away [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/aworldaway Watch: • Inukshuk - A World Away [NCS Release] Song: Voicians - Seconds [NCS Release] Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds Free Download/Stream:Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/vestiges-after-dark--3076216/support.