Episode 19: The Psychology of Spice: Why Women Devour Romance

BONUS EPISODE! We dive deep into the world of women, desire, and the books that crack us wide open. We’re joined by the incredible Laura Lee — psychologist, sexologist, and all‑round champion of shame‑free sexuality — for a conversation that’s equal parts insightful, validating, and a little bit spicy.Together, we explore why so many women gravitate toward romance books, what these stories unlock in our inner worlds, and how fantasy shapes (and sometimes surprises) our real‑life desires. Laura walks us through the different stages of a woman’s sexual development, why curiosity blooms so strongly in our 30s and 40s, and how fiction can become a safe space to explore what we want.We also unpack the rise of darker, unhinged romance trends and talk honestly about fantasy vs. reality — what’s healthy, what’s normal, and what it doesn’t mean about the women who love these stories.If you’ve ever wondered why a book can make you feel seen, stirred, or suddenly more connected to your own body… this episode is your permission slip to lean in.