The Purpose of "I Do" - Part 2

Our senior Pastor, Olumide Ogunjuyigbe, continues The Purpose of "I Do" series: The Purpose of "I Do" Part 2: Dismiss your False Belief (Myths) There are beliefs people take into marriage which are myths and very unrealistic. These are some myths surrounding marriage: 1. Marriage is made in heaven2. Marriage will make me happy3. Marriage will complete me4. My life will improve because I got married5. Marriage will absorb me from loneliness6. My spouse  should know what my needs are and meet them7. having children will make my marriage better8. Love is all I need9.Living together is a good idea 10. Physical appearance does not matter after marriage11. Communication should be spontaneous 12. great marriages never have conflicts or problemsMarriage is made on earth, so the fact that you pray does not mean all will be smooth when you marry.  What makes a healthy marriage is two healthy and happy people. Marriage does not complete people but it only compliments. Remove the influence of anything that is draining your affection or attention. Elevate your commitment over emotions. Adjust your attitude about relationship problems that may come up. Identify and embrace a common goal in your marriage "teamwork". Learn to communicate your commitment in words.