The Queering Up Sex Episode

Which sexual scripts and stereotypes do you follow, even if they don’t feel good or make sense? Dr Chris Donaghue explains how to have sex outside the lines and expand your skills and attitudes with yourself and partners.5:00 throw out your expectations about what sex “should” be like 12:00 approach a partner’s body with curiosity regardless of gender18:00 controversial idea: fluid and expansive educators will understand sexuality better25:00 trying new things all the time 30:00 goth kids do it in the cemetery 33:00 dirty talk tips39:00 everybody likes different things, sexually44:00 using toys: our entire bodies can be stimulated52:00 on “heteroflexible” as a term 57:00 other examples of sexual scripts1:00:00 resource requestsFIND YOUR GUEST: https://www.drchrisdonaghue.comFIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.comSee Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsSponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.comCondoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order!Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEXLooking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)